Fighting with them all the time

  • aUbReY mIcHeLlE
    17 years ago

    Can someone please help me. My best friend and I always get in fights over the stupidest things. She hasn't talked to me for like a week and I'm worried. Usually when we're not talking, she's torn apart. I want to fix this conflict so bad, but i don't know what to say to her. Everything I say just turns into another fight and I don't want it to be like that. I just wish I could talk to her and we could work it out without arguing. I just don't like being in fights with her. She's always in a horrible mood when we're fighting. I just want to fix it. Can someone give me some advice...................................................................PLEASE!!!

  • aUbReY mIcHeLlE
    17 years ago

    ^Bloomed Rose, if you read this, please..............PLEASE call me.

  • Just Lucy
    17 years ago

    Can't you just ask her if you can talk to her than I suggest you both sit down and try to work it out together, if she hates fighting with you and you hate fighting with her than just calm down and try approaching her.

  • Poetess Lana
    17 years ago

    My belief is try to work things out, but if you always fight over stupid little things, I dont believe shes really your friend. My so-called "best friend" (now exbf) and I used to argue all the time, but it got to the point where i was sick of it. so i gave up. it probably wasnt the best thing to do because then she started talking about me and writing poems... so I wrote slams back. I won the last two slams because of her, she pissed me off so badly. but eventually it calmed down.

  • Fluffy
    17 years ago

    You can't simply be friends if you brake up constantly.

  • aUbReY mIcHeLlE
    17 years ago

    I know she's my friend. She's the only one I can talk to about things. It's not constantly that we fight either, it's just sometimes. I know she's a true friend, cuz i wouldn't be who I am without her. I just don't know why we're fighting.

  • emmerz
    17 years ago

    True

    if all youve tried isnt working, then just leave it be. dont try to get other people into the mess, just leave it alone. go on and act like it isnt a big thing, even. i know, its easier said than done, but try and develop other friendships youvbe put on the side burner because of this one.

    i know, because i just went through this with a friend. and when/if the time comes that you two get back to beign good friends again, guard yourself: you know whats going to happen again, so just watch it. but if problems reoccur then, just let them slide.