What do i do?

I have always been considered the 'nice girl' in school. I give everybody a chance,a nd I'm friends with everyone. Very rarely I'm mean to people. However lately I have came to realize that being the 'nice girl' isnt getting me anywhere. People are treating me like a doormat, and they walk all over me. In the past 2 weeks I have had so many so called freinds turn their backs on me. I feel hurt and alone. I'm depressed so much, its to the point that i cant even write good, my grades are dropping and I cry all the time. Do you think my problem is that i forgive to easily and I'm quick to befreind, and thats why I'm getting so hurt? I cant stand the thought of someone being mad at me, or thinking a bad thought about me. I am a very nice person, but most people see me as the ditzy blonde who likes everyone. Since when is being friends with everyone such a bad thing?

I'm not sure dear, but I too seem to have the same problem. You just have to find who your real friends are, and, some people like me, don't technically have real friends. Sometimes, we're better off alone.
It takes a while to develop friendships. I wish that I could get more in depth but I seem to not be able to due to the bell that will ring in .05 seconds to switch to the next class so I'll probably find this later and add on. Good luck m'dear =]

Thanks. my class is starting too!

That problem . A few of my friends have that problem . You`r more too .. trusting ? I guess . I mean, I was never like that in the beginning, but honestly . Befriend people, but don`t consider them true until after some time . I understand not wanting people to be mad at you, trust me -- I don`t like the feeling either & i normally don`t care what people think . But just don`t automatically think they`re your friend . YOu gotta take the time to realize whether they`re real or not . If they turn their back on you, they aren`t worth your thoughts . My best friend of five years turned his back on me for his girlfriend . I spent a whole day crying, but after learning what I`ve learned the past two years -- You just gotta get over it . If you forgive them or go trying to fix what you didn`t do , it gets you no where .
People can see you as someone they can take advantage of .
Hope that helps, dear`y .
..__MiNDYY

Oh god..same here..I mean I live those too
But I was the always alone eveytime I get out of school even though I help them about everything,share them with everything-minus that

The thing I did is just let myself alone..When you behave good to the people who won't value it,you'll get nothing..and in the mean time you'll heal your wounds

And just stay away..they will just hurt you more everyday..I tried so many times to talk to,figure out what is the problem betweeen me and them,but it's just their characteristic,so you'll be just wounding yourself if you try

Just prove yourself that how good you can be without them and just look for another friend to hang out

And please wipe your tears,noone is that precious,especially this friends...believe me

I was kinda like that in earlier grades, but then I decided to be friends with a group that hadn't been my friends before, and those others moved on, but now everyone's all friends so everything worked out as for you're problem in school i don't what advice to give you, so hope everything works out!

Thankyou everyone.
you guys really did help me
i have put up with so much BS from these people who i used to call friends.
i have even had to change my dang phone number THREE times!!!!!
Im sick of it
i have moved one
thanks again

Well i was when i posted that. im a senior now