Person thinks she's in love

  • Startle Me
    17 years ago

    Okay..
    So maybe the title isn't that catchy.
    But still.
    I think I'm in love with a friend of mine.
    She's always on my mind.
    I dont know.
    Most of my friends are fake
    So I treat them as such.
    This is the actual friend I have that's a girl.
    So... I dont' know if I'm in love with her.
    Or this friendship thing is just a new thing..

    If you guys didn't know yet,
    I'm gay.
    So.. it'd be kind of awkward telling your best
    GIRL friend that you're in love with her.
    That would just ruin the whole relationship.

    I need help.
    Will someone PM me?
    Or talk in here at leat?

  • hiddenpain112605
    17 years ago

    Well iam bi n when my friend told me she liked me it didnt change our relationship it made it stronger n maybe one day we will b togather but i was never in love with another girl so i can only say so much..

  • Jenn
    17 years ago

    If she doesnt know your gay then joke around with her and be like so would you ever do a chick or at least date one

  • Normal is the Watchword
    17 years ago

    When you are close friends it's not odd to develope feelings

  • Startle Me
    17 years ago

    I don't know...
    I'm pretty sure that she's straight.
    I flirt with her and she flirts back...
    But that's just how we are.

    I don't want her to feel uncomfortable around me.
    Especially since I'm not that sure about my feelings.

  • handsome
    17 years ago

    U r not sure about your feelings...did u say u r not sure...then pls don't even go there...cos i can guarantee u that it is one risk u woudn't want to take...keep the friendship...its safer that way

  • Kristina
    17 years ago

    Does she know your a lesbian?

  • Brittany C
    17 years ago

    First does she know that you are gay?
    If she does than she should have already realized that there was a chance that you could possibly fall in love with her.
    I say tell her how you truly feel. Just follow your heart:) Who knows you guys may have a long and happy relationship.