I need help!!!!! please

  • hiddenpain112605
    17 years ago

    Ummm me n my ex boyfriend knew eachother 4 bout 3 years n have been dating 4 about 7 months n we broke up a week ago because he hit me.... so i left him but i am 2 months preg n i love him he sed he is sorry n that he wasent thinking ...... he wants to take him back n i want to but i dont no iam scared that it will ahppen again! what should i do?

  • Karl Wild GG23
    17 years ago

    Give him one more chance and if he ever touches you again walk out the door no questions asked.

    GG23

  • Monica AKA Mika
    17 years ago

    I agree with Bob...he hit you girl..open your eyes..he wasnt thinkin? He can say that a hundred times....he can just happen to stop thinkin again anytime of his lilfe..and you dont want to put your child in the situation of having to see hisor her mother being hit by their father! Im sorry but actions speak louder then words and if he really wants to be in you and the babys life he needs to take anger mangement classes (without being told to) and he would just do everything he could to SHOW you that he is a changed man! But dont even give him hints as to what to do he has to figure this stuff out on his own...GOOD LUCK! Maybe you should take up kick boxing or something..you ever see the movie Enough with Jennifer Lopez?lol

  • Karl Wild GG23
    17 years ago

    Yes true but if you read what she wrote, she said she wants to take him back and she's pregnant with his kid, walking out right now without thinking it over may be a mistake in the long run. Don't listen to anybody but yourself you know him best and you decide your future with him, just because he made a mistake doesn't mean he doesn't care for you.

    GG23

  • Kristina
    17 years ago

    I think you should give him another chance, if he only hit you once, guys shouldnt hit guys, but if it was the first time and you've been together that long, get back together and see what happens. if he does it again then i would break up with him and leave it at that, cause you dont need someone like that.

  • 19Rusty
    17 years ago

    Just one more chance, the slightest thing, gone.

  • JodiieBaybeh
    17 years ago

    I agree with kristna on this... he hit you once ...people say everyone deserves a second chnge...id give it another go but if he does it again then PLEASE leave him....after all e is the farther of you baby and yeah, maybe i ws a mistke tha he doestruely regrret but if it happns a second time .theres NO excuse for it .. x i wish you all the best ..x

  • Jaime
    17 years ago

    If you are pregnant, then the baby should be most important to you. You don't want your baby to grow up in a violent environment, and you don't want to put him/her at risk.

    I say leave him..

  • Finalgravedigger
    17 years ago

    Give him one more chance but if he doesnt it again then leave trust me happended to my mom he just kept hitting her for ten years

  • Normal is the Watchword
    17 years ago

    The baby is proof that the situation is serious. What if you give him a chance and he hits you again. Would you risk losing that baby?

  • The DaveJon
    17 years ago

    First, do you want to have the child?
    Second, are you sure it is love?
    Third, if he hit you once, probability is that he will hit you again