Heart matters

Is it good to get the heart involve from the start when we are not so sure of a lot of things...in short..why do we fall in love with the heart and not the mind...or is it both...help us here???

Well, i think love when it starts from the heart only confuses the mind...and gets it into a lot of trouble

Here I'll put in my two cents, Im no expert, but this is what I think:

I think that the heart and mind work together. The mind first decides what it is you are looking for in that special someone. Once that is decided your mind automatically connects with the heart. At that point, once you find what you are looking for your heart can come into action. You see that person, you hear them, you know them, all things to do with your mind. But there is something else, not only do you see them, hear them and know them, but those feelings are magnified. You SEE into them, you HEAR the silent motives, and you KNOW they're what you're missing. And if that someone feels that same way for you, both of your senses are magnified. You can both see the world in the others eyes, you can hear everything in their voice, and you know them inside and out. There are some that magnify your mind's thoughts with you, but there is one person that magnifies them the most...in other words, you may seem to fall in love with a few people, but only one is your true love.

Thats what I think....if there is an expert out there and can correct me, please do. Im off I know, because love is something that people have been trying to prove for centuries, but this is just my theory.

Good theory though...i must admit...so what do anybody else out there thinks?...hey guys come on lets hear u

My theory. Your heart and your mind conflict. Your heart says one thing and your mind says another, until you meet that special someone that you TRULY love. I know they conflict more often than they work together, because my heart doesn't want to stop liking him, and my mind is trying to kick some sense into my heart and get it to move on. They defintely don't work together most of the time. The heart is passionate and irrational. The mind is colder and rational(er). It's when you truly find someone that you love that they begin to work together.

.:Danielle:.

Great insight...so u say true love settles the two...great!!!

Ooops...now that's what i call a different angle...so tell me something... if the heart is an organ...what is the mind...no...no...no...i was just wondering...now if u say that emotions come from the mind then how can we seperate it from thoughts since it then concludes that the mind is in effect the boss...misleading us to think that we fall in love with our heart....tell me more

No...my lady...u missed the point of my issue...i did not say that emotions and thought meant the same thing...what i meant was that if u say the mind really does all the work then maybe we have to look at this issue of heart cos maybe the heart is never even involve in all this...maybe the heart is only another expression for love...what do u think?

Ok, now u tell me, does it really matter which one i fall in love with, cos all i want is the love, in any case i don't think i know cos frankly, it always confuses me

I think that they work almost against each other...like perfect chaos said your mind is rational, it makes you you do and say sane things and your heart is irrational, it makes you say things that you wish you could do but cant. and soemtimes it even gets hard to differentiate which one to listen to, you know that your mind is right but your heart is screaming for what it wants. in short, your heart is what you want and your mind is what you need.

^ Agreed

.:Danielle:.

Wow...your heart is what u want and your mind is what u need??? hmmm...such food for thought...who disagrees...*raises hand and brings it down abruptly* ...am confused...lol