Major issue...what do i do?!?!

I personaly dont care about this and i think me and this guy should try it but ALL of my friends are telling me not to.........ok...me and a guy have been really close for years now...and we just got together even tho it feels like a lifetime...the only problem is that he has a rare heart desease that will mostlikely( not definatly) take his life in a few years....we love eachother and we want a life together but everyone is telling me not to because he wont live long.....i love him, and i want to have a life and family with him, nomatter if he is there for the whole time(even tho i want him to be there forever). but my friends are telling me otherwise because they say it wouldnt be fair for our children if they dint get to grow up with himthere. i understand their point but i kno i could atleast keep the memory of him alive for them....but im confused on what to do...i love him too much to let him go so i guess what im asking is if i should try to start a family with him?...

please comment....i need some advice.....:)

He should enjoy his life and you should to. Live it to the fullest without regrets. If you two ever have kids than show them more love then they could ever have. Do so much with them such as vacations and family events with loads of pictures of them with their dad.

"I personaly dont care about this and i think me and this guy should try it but ALL of my friends are telling me not to"

...then why the hell have you come here?

Ask yourself the killer question BEFORE you type here again.