Family:

I dunno if i want advise or maybe i just want to share my story?..

u si my mum n dad argues most of the times..and when they do it turns into a big fight [ Dad hitting mum]..and i can do nth abt it..

like yesterday..we went to barbecue not only family but also with their friends..and wen we came back..it was already late like 4 smth..and me, mum, n sis..plus a uncle...we came by taxi, but dad said he wanted to walk..so..[at home]..me and sis were in our room..and dad arrived at home...and went stright to mum and asked...smth like mistress with money how do they come home..smth like dat..i fogot the exjact words//but still....mum didn't responded to him..and he punched her at her back i gues idon't no i jsut heard a big sound..and he asked again but mum didn't respond..and he slapped her/.........dan mum was socked i gues..and she was like..what's wrong..what are yu mad about?..you are the one who said you'd want to walk..instad of taking taxi to home...and dad jsut non stop beat her i gues/and threw her out frm their room..and mum also got mad..and shi went to dan and started saying words// like y are u always like this..and i gues shi also started hitting him..but as usual dad has more power dan mum..and dad was like..how dare you beat me..etc..and he hitted mum so hard...i gues co'z mum was like..look wat you'v done..y did you hit me so hard dat my blood came out....etc..but dad stillhitted her..albalbalbala//////

it's my dad fault..i don't no what's his problem..he just came with his stupid temper..and it's always like dat...

i wonder y won't he just devorce her insted of hurting her always?..
and he blames mum for what happenned to my brother...

he like:
u'were the one to taught him..if ur father ever beats u..you also beat him up..

co'z last last month..same..dat hitted mum so badly...and my big sister..so shi ran away to aunti house//were my brother was there..and he saw her crying..n asked wat's wrong..sis told him evth..and my bro came to the house..and saw dad hitting mum..and he jsut came in and started hitting dad...
and mum was holding dad tightly so he won't [dad]..harm my brother///...

but dad thinks dat shi holded him tightly so dad my brother can hit him[ my dad]. which is not true

and i don't no wat to do on these situation..all i do is not to interfeer in this fight..i just hide or just be numb..at dat tym.

y can't he just devorce of instad of hurting her every month?!!..and aniwaiz..mum's the one earning money...whild dad//just helps little....
:(..

p,s[ my dad lil bro [my uncle] was there to stop dad frm hitting mum but he ain't much of help..co'z dad never listens to him, not much tho]

AAH! Thats terrible. My daddy used to beat my mommy, but that was before I was old enough to remember it...or maybe I wasnt even born yet. But either way my sisters told me that my dad beat my mom all the time. My dad, I guess, was unstoppable. But eventually, my sisters got my mom's mom involved, who then ivolved the police. My dad and mom eventualy got split up. And now I don't have either of them.

Anyway my point is, maybe you should get some authority involved. Just simply stop by a police station and tell them that something is wrong. You could ask them to not let anyone know that you told if you want. But I think that instead of trying to stop it with your brother and sister you should get help. It's not right that your dad hurts your mom, and Im sure your mom would appreciate it if you (or your other siblings) got her some help, safety and get your dad some help. If his temper is bad like that then maybe he needs some therapy, counseling or something.

You should definally get some authority to help. My dad used to beat me every other day and it left me so messed up emotionally and misanthropic. My sister felt like it was her fault for not telling anyone. My mum feels like it was her fault for never being around or believing me when I told her. You don't want your family going through that kind of thing.

The police was involved in before arguemnts..but i don't want any public to intrerfier..i want them to solve it them self..they are adults for heaven shake!!..and now they ain't talking to each others..and i hate it..co'z mum comes' to sleep on my bed!!..and i hate sharing!!..for 1 day is ok but conitnuesly NOOO..!!..but dat can't be helped..

Well i cant say that i understand what your parents beating each other physically is like but my parents i guess you could say beat each other verbally and..ahh i couldnt take it...not that its gottten any better cause now its a different situation..

OMG! im sry! my brother hits be and noone knows so they cant do anything boutit but u cud ask ur mom why she doesn't leave him cuz... she doesn't rely on him 4 money apparently and she deserves better u both do!