Kissing advice [Older teens only please]

While on a nature trail I think two days ago my boyfriend and I stopped to kiss for a little bit which to me is still a tiny bit awkward do to our heights. I'm around five foot or something and he's about 6 foot 4. He told me twice that he would like to try french kissing but not unless I wanted to. He tried to start that but I backed out extremely fast which he was alright about.

The thing is that I haven't dated since I was fourteen and that had been an unhealthy relationship that I'm still trying to get over on my own. I had tried that type of kissing with my ex back then about twice and didn't care for it, maybe because he was becoming a complete jerk. I'm still afraid to get hurt or that if I try that type of kiss with my current guy that I would look too easy or something. Any help trying to get rid of the past or will I look too easy?

Hun i dont think you would becuz i mean you love him or i think you do..but like just explain to him how you feel about it..and if he loves you back then he will understand..and dont ever think you would look to easy cuz you wont..

Honestly, some people just don't like that type of kissing. Personally, I think it's kind of fun, if you have someone who is a good kisser! I was sort of in the same boat, that I told him to wait because I wasn't ready to try it, he told me it would be fun, but he wouldn't unless I was ready. So, a little while later, I decided to take a little "risk". If you aren't comfortable with it, don't do it. Explain your reasons to him, I'm sure he'd understand.

.:Danielle:.

I was horrible at kissing. Turns out it just takes practice..and yes, I'm a tall guy too (6'3") so it does make kissing the shorter girls a bit more awkward, but with practice and patience you can work it all out. As for the french kissing portion, just tell him that you want to stick to normal for now and hold off on the time being on the frenching.

I'm trying to let go of an unhealthy past still that left me too vulnerable around people that my trust was shot. Thanks for the advice everyone.

Well hun.. french kissing is scary if your not to sure what to do.. we all used to be scared but thing is everyone kisses differently and you two wood find your own type of "french kissing" and it does take bit of time to get used to it... k k yeah sometimes if you do feel for the bloke and you kiss then things go pear shaped then yeah ull miss him even more but hun just because you kiss dont mean youll lk easy or anything..
but if you dnt feel happy with it then dont do it and let it happen when it happens.. thing is ppl rush too much and it so much nicer to take your time and let things happen when they happen yeah???
ive bn with my bf 6 months this months and we let things happen in there own time and it makes us so much closer..

k k we all have bad realtionships and me and my bf's exs were nasty and we both were healing each other and we were slowly showing each other that we trust each other... well if this lad wil wait then you stick with him dont run away from him because your be running for yrs.... but your also v young so just let things happen when they happen... tell him again you just want to normal kiss.. and it can be fun love because it is and you will see when your READY to do it..

take care hun

xhx

Lols French kissing isn't the normal way? lols hhmmm lols It's true that everyone kisses differently and if his way makes you uncomfortable then just tell him and explain your reasons and if he understands then you have a great guy that you need to hold onto =) And I highly doubt if anyone would think you were easy if you kissed your boyfriend like that =P Not even him *hugs you*
lols The only way my ex did kiss was French kissing from our first kiss on and I loved every one of them and thought that they were fun and a huge turn on =D and my other ex...well...he wasn't the greatest of kissers shell we say =P lols
Like the person above me said, just let things happen at there own pace and don't rush things ^_^ You've got all the time in the world and you can always tell a good guy by whether he'll wait or not ^_^
Hope things go great for you,
Rhea

What IS french kissing in the first place?
me being the less experienced and unknowing.

please explain?
lol
id appreciate it :D

French Kissing is where while kissing the other person uses their tounge that finds its way inside your mouth. It's more fun than it sounds for most people. lol

.:Danielle:.

^you will probably find you wont need to try and write his name with your tongue or what not when you do do it yourself, its kind of a natural for most people to just sorta do it, I was nervous before the firsty time I made out with someone but as soon as yas join at the lips lol just let it happen haha its alot easier than it sounds... you will find out

haha so the 'older teens only please' at the end of the forum name didnt quite work lol.

LOL isnt it suppose to just come naturally? mayb if u start grunting and smiling it would make u sound like u no what ur doing?

=S LMAO

OMG I must be weird. I almost always do french. I don't know how to just stick to normal!!! LOL!

Lol...

Lols My first guy I kissed did it normal and thats kinda nice depending on how they do it but then my last ex only kissed me french and OMG that is so much fun and actually turns me on depending on how they do it lols
Deep, long and French and I'm set and couldn't be happier lols
Rhea

French kissing is a fun thing if the guy knows how to kiss
And if he knows how to use his tongue..or otherwise you will be in despair lol
And about looking easy,the timing is important..how long you guys have been dating?

My best friend is now dating with a guy..and she kissed him at the first day...Now that's looking easy and I told her too..But she doesn't listen to me..she never listened to me even about a jerk that she calls it her ex..now he threatens her to tell everyone that they had sex

French kissing is a VERY mild step in a realtionship... Doesn't make you look easy, nor does it open you up enough for you to get hurt if things don't pan out between you and your boyfriend =) You do have to start somewhere though, and if he loves you he'll have no probably helping you. The girl I'm with at the moment had never french kissed before and I taught her how... and now she's just... wow... that's all I can say

Sooo.... it's very simple... lips together as if a regular kiss... let him lead the first time, and only open your mouth as much as he does... tongue in his... GENTLY meet with his... retract.. close for a kiss... open again and repeat =)

I don't think that french kissing hehe is going to make you look easy. But if you do it in front of everyone and your really going at it then yes it will make you look kinda hoeish lol. But I think making out is fun and it truns some people on. Just make sure he knows you don't always have to make out a regular kiss is nice too.

I don't think even sex really means anything anymore so dont get worried about what kissing will make you out like.
youll be fine

Hun...angelina and britt..here'S understanding is quite different..some kind of immature..so I'm just living how I be adapted to my environment..and here if you even hold hands of a guy you newly date so fast..it's a no no
And here kissing a guy fast is stating him that you're ready for sex..here's guys are so moron and so non-understanding

and in my opinion you can't plan a kiss..it just happens

I personally don't like french kissing. I've done it plenty of times before, and im still not comfortable with it. i just don't like the feeling of another persons tongue. ick

<3Mary

That would be weird if you don't know what french kissing is

I love someone

"My best friend is now dating with a guy..and she kissed him at the first day...Now that's looking easy and I told her too.."

well, that is the craziest thing i have ever heard... honestly, i have kissed many guys on the first date and some i wasnt even dating... its a kiss... its not like you are taking off your clothes and jumping into the person's pants...
and also, a kiss just happens... when the time is right it just is... and if you have never done it before, it will come natural... everyone's kissing style is different so sometimes you just have to go with the flow...

Yeah, my boy is a good half foot + plus taller, and it makes my neck ache sometimes...but according to me, height is not a foundation to base love. Use your imagination! Be playful and stand on something that makes you taller, have him lift you up, sit down, lay down, or have him fall to his knees like a good boy! :)

And you talk about this guy like you haven't been with him long, so slow down girlie, if you're uncomfortable...the speed must be decreased until comfort is achieved.

French kissing is fine,but if you dont want to do it then dont. you dont need our advice about it, either you want to french or you dont, simple as that

Haha wow.... ive been frnching forver... and yeah ive kissed some TERRIBLE kissers [oh boy!] and then there were some that were WHOA BABY! lol... like the guy with the tongue ring ;] lol..... kissing is for me a great 'activity' as ive called it lol..... and one the the sexest ones is the spiderman kiss haha ive done that with a couple guys and it was... interesting. =] but without a doubt, the best kisses are the ones when you're in love.
truly.

My ex boyfriend, he like always tried to ATTACK my face. Very bad kisser. He never just wanted normal kisses, it was always like hardcore stuff. I didn't like it. But the guy I am with now, not bad. Haha. :D French kissing is fun. But so is the normal kisses. Just try not to think about it so much. Just kind of let it come naturally.

Hope that kind of helped.

Jackie Marie

I like normal kisses and the frenching to :) the last time i was frenching with a guy he couldn't keep his tounge in my mouth. Point im trying to make is it felt like my dog was liking my face hardcore.

^^

Don't you hate that!! I don't like the feeling of someone licking my face. It kind of grosses me out. Haha.

Jackie Marie

AHHH!!! Someone I can relate to! My boyfriend of over two years attacks my face too, and every other time we kiss I say something (not mean at all!) about how I don't really like having his saliva all over my face or being chocked by his tongue...but it's not that he does those things on accident, that's actually how he enjoys kissing! I don't know what to do. We rarely have long kissing sessions without him getting so excited that he has to start slobbering all around my mouth and, ugh...yep. I love him to death and his bad kissing would never make me leave him, haha, but it's a bit of a turn off at times.