What to do??

I have a bit of a dilema. there's a guy in my life right now who i just recently got to talking and getting close with. he really likes me..a lot
i'm afraid i don't feel the same amount for him. I keep thinking about the guy i used to love before him. it's a problem because i know it won't work with the old guy but i still keep haniging on. i guess i haven't totally let go yet.
is this wrong?..i mean if you have someone in your life who really cares for you should you still be thinking about the one you used to love, but will never work out with?..do you suggest i should just get with this new guy, will that help let go of the feeling for the old one?

I think that wouldn't be fair to the guy who likes you a lot, if he is willing to give you his whole self, you should be willing to do the same. Remain friends with him for sure, and hopefully the more time you spend with him, the more you'll fall for him and the more you'll forget about the old b/f and the more you'll be willing to give him yourself in return.

.:Danielle:.

If you're asking if it's wrong for u to still have feelings for your old bf, then no it isn't. its ok to still have some leftover feelings because lets face it, you loved the guy, right? and just becuz u get with this new guy won't make the feelings go away. u have to give it time and eventually when you fall deeply in love, u will forget about ur ex.

Well, i actually just went through something similar like this...my advice to you, is tell the guy who likes you that you may see something in the future, but you're still a bit attached to your old bf, and would like to get to know him more. but do not say anything you don't mean to him...i made that mistake and ended up breaking his heart. so just play it safe :)

I DNT THINK YOU SHULD GET WITH THE NW GUY! BECAUSE YOUR FEELINGS FOR YOUR OLD LOVE HAVE NOT PASTED ON! YOU HAVE TO LET GO OF ONE, BEFORE YOU MOVE ON! IT DOESNT MATTER HOW FAST YOU FALL, IT IS HOW FAST YOU GET BACK UP THAT COUNTS!!
GOOD LUCK ;)