I fell in love with my BFF's EX-BF

  • Melinda
    17 years ago

    I fell in love with my best friend's ex-boyfriend. i know he's off limits but i can't hepl it. he's aslways on my mind!

    i'm trying to concentraite on other guys but it always comes back to him. i don't want to hurt my BFF but i love him, hopelessly.

    did i mention this is the second time i fell for him.

  • Normal is the Watchword
    17 years ago

    I kept thinking of my friend who was also my crush for the entire year but he introduced me to his friend at prom [my crush was my prom date], and made clear how he only saw me as a friend. So I tried a guy I hardly knew, his friend, and it's working out good.

    Take a chance on a new guy just try and you never know it could help you not think of your BFF's ex B-F

  • Melinda
    17 years ago

    Thanx

  • ABake
    17 years ago

    You can't "stop" yourself from falling for someone. You can't control your feelings. And if they arent together anymore what should it matter. I foyu really love him or care about him then I would just follow your heart. Also, how serious were they? And was she really hurt after they broke up? How long ago did they break up? Jw. It would probably be a bad idea if they just broke up 2 weeks ago. But if she is really your friend she would just want you happy.

  • ALEX
    17 years ago

    I tell my friends they can have my exes. Obviously they weren't the one for me, so why should I hold on to feelings for them lke that? I think it's dumb when a girl denies her friends happiness. No matter what happened between her and that boy.

  • Tess Beautifully Broken
    17 years ago

    I've been there done that

    i fell in love with my cousins ex bf

    what i did was i asked permission first. she gave me such permission and we dated for 6 months

    sometimes asking is a lot easier than one thinks

    hope it helps
    and keep your head up high,
    xoxo
    Tess

  • X Kashies Misery X
    17 years ago

    If you love him, he will feel the same way more likely, ask him, pull him away and just clear the feeling between u,

    Look I just cant stop thinking about you....i am madly in love with you, i no you are of limits and god i no i dont want to hurt my best friend, but....what do u suggest i do?....this feeling wont go away...do u feel the same?

    and if ur best friend is really ur best friend shell be pissed of but to tell her the truth is always the best thing to do and eventually shell come around and forgive and help you..and besides shes not with him, it obvesly means they were bad together, what if u are stoping ur "true love"?