Nothing Makes Sence....

  • X Kashies Misery X
    17 years ago

    There is this guy, and he loves me so much, and I love him to...well atleast I think I do...it's so weird, because I don't know how to feel....it's really weird because i've never been in this situation before, and I don't understand....if you love someone and they love you.....then why must there be other emotions envolved? I mean, he is good and all, and I love him to death, but i'm scared, because his more experienced then me, and now since I don't feel love love I don't know what to do or think... I think I might hate him and I'm forcing myself to like him? is that even possible?....
    Please help........i can't hold him forever, and ive made weird stories of my future like this...and they always end in tradgity....

  • Normal is the Watchword
    17 years ago

    I thought I was gonna force myself to like my bf the first week or so since I had a major crush on our friend who didn't like me back and I hardly knew the boy who asked me out.

    But I let things naturally happen and I love being around him. I found out one thing he had more experience with but I'm not gonna let it bother me and it shouldn't bother you either if he's good to you get to know him and see how you feel.

  • X Kashies Misery X
    17 years ago

    No, but ive known this person for AGES and we have been good good friends before we started feeling the way that we do, and everytime he says i love you and i write it back i feel discusted and angry with myself, why because i dont feel it? or because i feel like im not good enough?

  • Dance Girlie
    17 years ago

    It sounds to me that you're not ready to be in a relationship right now if you can't sort out your own feelings. take a while and figure it out :)

  • X Kashies Misery X
    17 years ago

    No but that's the problem! ive had ages to figure it out, ive sat there and tried and it never works! i have no idea what to do,

  • ABake
    17 years ago

    It sounds to me like your not ready to say those words. But only you can decide what to do. We will give you advice and its your choice to take it or not.
    Maybe just talk to him and ask him if he seriously loves you and just be honost with him and tell him your not ready to exchange those words yet.

  • Fluffy
    17 years ago

    How can you make senSE when you spell it the way you did?

    Sheesh.

  • Fluffy
    17 years ago

    ^..listen to Britt. She's a wise one and knows MUCH from experience.

    HAHA. ;D (loveyou :)

    Just be patient.

  • X Kashies Misery X
    17 years ago

    Well sorry I can't spell but that isnt the point!
    SHEESH!
    pfft!
    Aiight, well i told him how I feel and he says he's cool with it and all, and I found out why im tripin over this its cause, i dont love him, infact i found out that i almost hate him and ive felt this way cause this guy i realllly like and we kindah flirt and say how much we love eachother but he has a gf and he is probably almost closely, basically two timing me, even know he isnt with me, and its just discusting and ive been really angry over him because i feel rejected and there for I have been witht his other guy, cause he does love me that much. So i was completely blinded. Now he says he understands and its cool, but now his giving me crap for it, and he is hurt... and the i put it straight up to the other guy, you cant do this to me and her, ect. and now i think his going to break it of with her, but i dont know.