Friends With Benefits?!?!

FRIENDS WITH BENIFITS IS KOO AS LONG AS U KEEP IT FRIENDS WEN YOU GUYS GET ATTATCHED THEN YOU HAVE A PROBLEM BELEIVE ME I KNOW IM IN A FRIEND SITUATION RIGHT NOW

Yeah, I get the point. I think I'll steer clear from any such for a while...=)

^ Good idea. ^_^ Although you should stay clear of them all together.

.:Danielle:.

Can i join...pls

Well why not?? She said she wanted opinions. Give yours!!

.:Danielle:.

Have fun with that.

Sure u can join handsome.

Hehe, yepp

Friends wit benefits doesnt always mean full blown sex, u kno, it could be a little sumthing thats just not offcical. and even if the other person has more "friends" thats fine, its life, u shouldnt take baby steps and try to be as careful as possible, cuz think if the world were to end tomorrow , think of all the things u didnt and wont get to do, or if u died tomorrow, same thing. and i just feel that u should live life to the fullest, and i am 100 percent sure when i post this sum oen will twist my words and make this whole thing into a CON instead of a PRO, and thats fine cuz we all have our own opinios about things

I like being friends with benifits

Agreed Stephanie! Live life to the fullest =)

Thanks, at least i know i am not the only one afraid of things coming to an end!!!!

Ravenna does make a clear point, NEVER go against your cultural beliefs, and if you do you shouldnt have let it get that far, but sumtimes its hard to stop

-----------Stephanie(also known as Bri(my nickname))

No No No friends wit benefits...enough said! lol

Let your finger linger and let your hands meet what stands. Hahaha, I'm such an idgit. Ok, what I mean is friends with benefits are completely not worth it...you're pretty much hooking up with someone for sexual pleasure, no strings attached, and that's it...isn't that a bit um...Oh, can someone define skanktown for me? Anyway, if you aren't ready for a committed relationship, even if it's not serious...just as long as you are attached, a couple or however you want to phrase it...then you probably should steer clear of sexual activities anyway. That's my view.

Kay, I've cleared my view on this and figured out what I'm going to do. Just steer clear. Thank you everyone for your input.

No problem, and whatever choices you make...be safe! Haha, but really...good luck.

I'd go for a serious relationship.

Thank youuu guys =D

I think it depends. Depends on the person YOU are, and your 'friend'. Personally, I'm totally into it. I mean, righte now it's summer, and I'm not into the whole commitment thing for the time being. I have a lot of guy friends, guy friends that I makeout with and such. We don't go any further than that, and I do love them to an extent, but right now I don't need the whole 'zomg you're talking to another guy holy crap wtf?!'.

So yeah, to me, it's chill. :P

Well i think if you start the whole friends with benefits thing then its very risky. Any guy who would agree to that would eventually just take advantage of the situation... so i say bad idea go for the serious relationships and the serious guys

Oh thank you so much guys, it was fun for a while actually...Until I found out he had a serious girlfriend. And now I feel guilty, used, stupid, and every other possible horrible word that could describe my regret.

Never again =/

My idea is that rather it's a serious relationship or friends with benefits, a relationship is a relationship and no relationship is without its drama.
Even in a friends with benefits thing you are expected to do things, be there whenever and still remain friends without feeling any emotional feelings towards them.
No matter how complicated it gets and no matter how many times my heart gets broken... I want a real relationship.

My idea is that rather it's a serious relationship or friends with benefits, a relationship is a relationship and no relationship is without its drama.
Even in a friends with benefits thing you are expected to do things, be there whenever and still remain friends without feeling any emotional feelings towards them.
No matter how complicated it gets and no matter how many times my heart gets broken... I want a real relationship.