He doesn't trust me, and i don't understand why

What am i supposed to do when my boyfriend lives all the way in Jersey and i live in Cali. At the beginning there was a lot of trust but now, i'm not too sure. I know that he doesn't trust me around other guys and i hate that he can't trust me. But he shouldn't have no reason not too, i've never done anything for him not to trust me. People keep telling me that it might be because he's out there doing something he's not supposed to. Wht should i do?

Depeneds on who THESE ppl are. friends family mom, dad? are the ppl u trust. screw what they say. they're not the ones dating him. if he is doing something wron u'll know. and if he doesn't trust U then honey it's not even worth it.

Well the people that are telling me that he's guilty are friends and my grandmother. I feel like he's guilty of something, but i can't put my finger on it. His friends always call me telling me, that i need to call him because he's doing something that he's not, but i really don't trust all of them like that.

Sounds like u hav quite a delema. do what u think is right for u. is something happens it can't be wrong bcuz its was right 4 u.

Sounds like he is cheating if he accuses you, then he is guilty. I woud try and talk to his family or friends and no offense but why the hell would you be with someone who lives that FAR away?? Oh and if his friends don't even know you call you and tell you then he must be cheating..........

I have to agree with the other people. If hes accusing YOU and if he has absolutely to reason to be accusing you. Then hes guilty of somethin

In a relationship if theres no trust then there is no love. If he doesn't trust you then maybe yea he is doing something out and thats why he is asking you to see if he ain't the only one. Or maybe he is looking for a reason to break up with you. But don't let that make you stop loving him. If its true love then maybe God is just testing you two and in the end if you two are still together then it's true love. Just follow what your heart is saying and try to understand why he is not trusting you. He loves you honey and thats why he is the way he is

There is no relationship without communication and trust .

..__MiNDYY

Well hes a guy and maybe hes just really afraid of losing you and loves you alot

OR

maybe hes doing sumthing he shouldnt and hes being all protective over you to try and take the heat off of him

Im surprised noone said this...
maybe he's been hurt by other relationships, where girls cheated on him and whatnot? i know i never trust a guy for that reason, but that was most of the guys who didnt deserve it anuyways. when i found someone who i loved, i trusted him for some reason. and now i see no relationship is rigth without trust.

Good idea. asking him, i mean.
strange how thats always the last resort with some people.
myself sometimes included.