He Loves me!!

  • Melinda
    17 years ago

    Okay there is this guy that i've kinda liked sice the 5th grade. well i saw him yesterday and he walked me home. when he reached my house, he took my hand and pulled me to him and kissed me! he said he's beeen in love with me for the past two years.

    he said he'd wait for me but i don't know if i should say yes bcuz of another guy i love but can never have.

    5 mis L8R

    my bff's exbf just called me and said he loves me too. omg what do i do?

  • handsome
    17 years ago

    Your bff's exbf is not ideal so if i were u, which fortunately am not, i will try hitting it with this other guy, i think he promises more...well that's is what i think

  • Melinda
    17 years ago

    What do you mean ideal

  • handsome
    17 years ago

    By ideal i mean he is your bff's exbf and that does not sound so good...well not to me

  • Melinda
    17 years ago

    True.
    any one else?

  • Jaime
    17 years ago

    We can't tell you who to pick, because we don't know either of the guys. Just date the one you like more I guess.

  • bRiNgMeToLiFe
    17 years ago

    Hmm from personal experience dont choose your bff's ex.
    that will just get you 2 into a fight later on.
    i would go with the guy that you've kinda liked since 5th grade. you know he loves you and you did say thatyou kinda liked him. but its your life so do w/e you want..

  • NuovoVesuvio
    17 years ago

    You're crazy. I despise girls like you.

  • Alex Marlatt
    17 years ago

    Go for the first guy. He seems more promising. Your friends ex might lead to a fight and he's probably not the greatest guy if she split up with him.

  • Melinda
    17 years ago

    NuovoVesuvio,

    what do u mean crazy?

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    i talked to the guy from the 5th grade. he asked me out on a date for wednesday. i said i'd go. but the other guy is really mad now. he's one of my friends too what should i do?

  • Melinda
    17 years ago

    No i only love ONE!!!!!!! but i can't have him so i am just going out on a DATE! that's it. i am not saying iwant to be with him. its just a date.

  • Alex Marlatt
    17 years ago

    Well the other guy is just going to have to suck it up. You said you'd go and I think you should stick with what you said. If the other guy is mad then to bad he should've asked sooner.

  • Normal is the Watchword
    17 years ago

    Just don't string a guy along

  • limp
    17 years ago

    ..
    leave the other one alone completely until you're over the 1st one
    the reason you're still hung on him is because you're being pointlessly dramatic
    just either talk about it to him, why did you two break up in the first place, does he still love you, etc, if not, GET OVER IT
    otherwise you won't get ANYWHERE

  • Normal is the Watchword
    17 years ago

    Did he ever even love you back?

  • Fluffy
    17 years ago

    Wow. I wish I'd put my advice into one sentence.

    "You're crazy. I despise girls like you."

    Preach.

  • Melinda
    17 years ago

    I told the one guy it was too late. so i am cool now. i am pretty excited about my date.

  • silvershoes
    17 years ago

    Alright...are you actually 16? I assume that isn't you in your dp, you sound very young.

  • Melinda
    17 years ago

    No i am 16. i guess i do sound young. :)

  • Fluffy
    17 years ago

    ^Wow.

  • xXx Allison xXx
    17 years ago

    If a guy gets mad over a choice that you made, then he doesn't seem like a very good friend. if a guy pushes you to make a decision, then he doesn't seem to care very much for YOU. he might like WHAT you are, but he doesn't really seem to care WHO you are. which would you prefer?
    if a guy really love YOU, he will care for how he hurts you, how others hurt you, and the choices you make. he won't get mad at your choices, but cry with you when you make the wrong choices.
    love is a two way street. you have to make choices that affect not only your lane, but his too. and those choices have to work together. otherwise you will end up not only hurting yourself, but innocent people too (your friends, for example) everything you do now will eventually affect your future.
    the choice is yours, not mine, or anybody else's.