Im upset over a stupid thing, can someone please give me some ad

My mom booked a cruise for 10 day's for my sister, herself, and me. Thats 10 day's I wont be able to talk to my bf at all. We haven't gone more then 3 days not talking to each other and that got me upset. Now its 10 days, we have been together for 7 months, 8 months on the 29th of this month (june). I know i'm being a total baby and that its just 10 days but I'm still bawling my eye's out. My mother doesn't really like him to much, but she has always been like that about my bf's. I never give her reason and they never give her reason. My family isn't really there for me and his is always so nice to me so I am really attached to him and his family. Is it ok for me to be upset like this or what?

Umm...you sound kindof obsessed with this bf of yours.But then again I would probably feel the same way about my bf. But idk, maybe you guys could send letters? Are you allowed to do that on cruises? Or does your sister or mom have a cell phone? Or just ask him to write you like a few letters and you can read on every other day or something.

Wait were you asking for ideas or advice?

Advice ^^;

my bf is really close to my heart, more so then any family I have/had. So I am kinda obsessed with him I guess ><. Can't send letter's and using cellies cost a lot on roaming. There is a computer I'm aloud to use only once during the whole time and thats for an hour.

Seriously, 10 days is not as bad as it sounds. Me and my boyfriend are very close, and we rarely go more than a day without at least talking. I went away on holidays over the Christmas break for about 2 weeks, and yes I missed him, but the time just flew by. You're going to have fun on a cruise.

Plan to spend an entire day with him when you get back. Imagine how great it will be to catch up, and think of the sparks that will be flying after 10 whole days.

As much as you'll miss him, it's not always an unhealthy thing to spend some times apart. It just reminds you of how great the relationship is once you come back.

Maybe this is a time too actually bond with your family and not be so caught up with your boyfriend. why don't u think about your fmaily and spend time with them, your bofriend will still be there. he's not going anyway. don't worry about it

Personally you sound a little obsessed. but hey so was i with my last bf. anyways its only 10 tens and as long as it seems your not going to die. just have fun on the cruise and when you come back you'll see him and everything will be great again.

I think you're being a selfish brat.

I would love my mom to death if she booked me on a cruise for 10 days. It'd be heaven.

That's the difference with immature & mature relationships also, if you can't handle being away from each other for 10 days, then honestly, reconsider because as you get older, there are going to be times where you have to be apart for awhile.

Have a little independence, you're 15 years old.

.Kayla.

Hey also if you got one hour.
then just use it wisely.

I heard that you can only use it once during the entire trip. Why not have 5 days that you don't use it then the 6th day use if for an hour and then you'll be able to talk to him. Just tell him to be on at a certian time.

But I bet you your going tohave fun. Just think of other things and nt your boyfriend.

Why can't you let him go, if you love him? Isn't there some saying.. : If you love somebody, you can let him go for a while..? Or something like that?
Believe me, the more you see eachother.. the less fun it'll be eventually.. Cause if you don't see eachother for a few days and then you see eachtother again, it's more fun. Hmm, i'm not sure if you understnad what I mean.. lol =)

Hey there,

I know how hard it is because I've been in similar situations and am also nearly 7 months with my gf :p.

It is easy for this lot to ramble on about you just hiking off and that's that - but of course if they were in your situation they would realise how much harder it is.

I guess your parents don't like your bf's due to religious and/or cultural reasons. That's just the way they are and battling against that is fighting against the sun.

The best hope I can give is that my gf and I survived for three weeks without talking to each other, without even knowing that I had been hauled half way across the world (it was a snap decision, for personal reasons beyond my control). We're really close and her family is also very nice to me, unlike mine to her.

So listen, 10 days is a piss in the park compared to the extent of the love both of you share - and both of you need to realise that. Sure it won't be easy, but it's just over a week, and there are 52 weeks in a year. Try and forget love and blow it into proportion - it's nothing really. Then remember love and realise that you can go through anything as long as the bond is there.

Rowdy.

XD