Can I trust Him

  • pebbles 89
    17 years ago

    This is the second time I have been in a real relationship with no games and no cheatin. We have been friends for 3 years and now we finally got together. He went off to college and is 1 hour away from me. I don't know if I can trust him. I would like him to call me everyday but it seems like he only wants to text. I don't know what to do. I don't know if i should still be with him or what

  • SECRET
    17 years ago

    At least thank god he texts you..and waiz y don't u guys talk on phone?.he doesnt want or wat?

  • limp
    17 years ago

    Until you can stop being so paranoid and dramatic for no reason, you shouldn't lead somebody on and BE in this relationship. Either talk to him about it, sort out your trust issues, or leave him alone; because it's just not fair. If you have no reason not to trust him, why shouldn't you? 99% percent of a relationship revolves around trust, if it doesn't come naturally, maybe he's not the right one for you. Either way, talk to him about it, maybe he feels the same way or something.

  • Alex Marlatt
    17 years ago

    Unless he has done something to violate your trust then you have no reason to not trust him. Trust me in saying nothing is more irksome or irritating than being distrusted when you've done nothing wrong.
    Just trust him. Otherwise your relationship is doomed.

  • xfAdInGxaWaYx
    17 years ago

    He's only going to be an hour away! Thats not the ends of the earth. Relax a bit, relationships work on trust. You've got to be able to trust him to make it work.

  • Anonymous Angel
    17 years ago

    You could always try to call him once in a while, im sure that he don't mind it sometimes.. but every day is a bit much.

  • xXx Allison xXx
    17 years ago

    I don't think that long distance relationships are worth much. if you are always paranoid about him, it will make your thinking foggy, so to speak. it will make you always jumping to conclusions. why risk it? if he doesn't hurt you first, you will accidentally hurt him by jumping to conclusions. and that accidentally stuff sometimes hurts worse than the cheating.
    you are going to have to decide. if you are desperate enough for him, then you will keep it up. if you understand what i'm saying, then wait until he can see you, walk to your house whenever, phone you whenever, and until he can be there for you. otherwise, why hurt for no reason?

  • Impulse
    17 years ago

    I've actually had personal friends of mine ask me about what they should do when their boyfriend doesn't call em... I get things from "He doesn't like me" to "he's and asshole"... and I'm gonna tell you the same thing I tell all of them darlin'...

    If you don't make an effort to call them also, then you can't blame them yet.

    Call him and get him on the phone... and if he cuts conversations short then ask him what's up... I know I personally... my last couple relationships I've always emailed my girlfriends.. .I was in a relationship for a year where all it was was emails... hardly ever any phone calls... the one I'm in at the moment I talk to her all the time on the phone... but personally I like emails better because I have time to think about what I'm going to say

    *shrugs*... could me multipul reasons... but before ya start getting uneasy about it... gotta ask first ;)

  • Brittney
    17 years ago

    Well call him. Tell him your problems. if he doesn't understand... move on.
    if there is no trust there is no real relationship. Don't waste your time.

  • Becca
    17 years ago

    All I'm sayin is... if you have to wonder if you can trust him then maybe you two shouldn't be together. But then again I do have trust issues. But really I agree... talk to him and if he gets to actin all crazy then maybe it's time to call it off.
    Or maybe you need to get your mind off of him. Go out with the girls or somethin.