pebbles 89
17 years ago
This is the second time I have been in a real relationship with no games and no cheatin. We have been friends for 3 years and now we finally got together. He went off to college and is 1 hour away from me. I don't know if I can trust him. I would like him to call me everyday but it seems like he only wants to text. I don't know what to do. I don't know if i should still be with him or what |
limp
17 years ago
Until you can stop being so paranoid and dramatic for no reason, you shouldn't lead somebody on and BE in this relationship. Either talk to him about it, sort out your trust issues, or leave him alone; because it's just not fair. If you have no reason not to trust him, why shouldn't you? 99% percent of a relationship revolves around trust, if it doesn't come naturally, maybe he's not the right one for you. Either way, talk to him about it, maybe he feels the same way or something. |
Alex Marlatt
17 years ago
Unless he has done something to violate your trust then you have no reason to not trust him. Trust me in saying nothing is more irksome or irritating than being distrusted when you've done nothing wrong. |
xfAdInGxaWaYx
17 years ago
He's only going to be an hour away! Thats not the ends of the earth. Relax a bit, relationships work on trust. You've got to be able to trust him to make it work. |
Anonymous Angel
17 years ago
You could always try to call him once in a while, im sure that he don't mind it sometimes.. but every day is a bit much. |
xXx Allison xXx
17 years ago
I don't think that long distance relationships are worth much. if you are always paranoid about him, it will make your thinking foggy, so to speak. it will make you always jumping to conclusions. why risk it? if he doesn't hurt you first, you will accidentally hurt him by jumping to conclusions. and that accidentally stuff sometimes hurts worse than the cheating. |
Impulse
17 years ago
I've actually had personal friends of mine ask me about what they should do when their boyfriend doesn't call em... I get things from "He doesn't like me" to "he's and asshole"... and I'm gonna tell you the same thing I tell all of them darlin'... |
Becca
17 years ago
All I'm sayin is... if you have to wonder if you can trust him then maybe you two shouldn't be together. But then again I do have trust issues. But really I agree... talk to him and if he gets to actin all crazy then maybe it's time to call it off. |