Im confused on what to do

My friend sarah and i have been friends off and on for 3 years for various reasons. we're both 15 and shes had sex with more guys that i can count on my fingers, and hooked up with more guys than i can put on my fingers and toes combined. im more of the shy type and not that expierenced. not to mention she doesnt know that i know any of this, and she thinks that i see her as a goodie virgin.

we were hanging out with chris, jeff, and nick on saturday night. and last summer chris and i had a fling and hooked up a few times, but that was all. and when i finally saw chris for the first time in nearly 8 months, i felt that push for him again.

later on sarah pulls me aside and asks if i still like chris, when i told her i still had feelings (rediculuce but whatever), she tells me she really likes him. i told her that she needed to back off, and this was one guy she could lay off from.

she agreed and we continued on. she came to me again and said she really REALLY liked him, so i said that to make it fair for both of us, niether of us will hook up because there are other guys and its not worth it to fight over this stuff. she agreed and we hugged and continued on. ( of course we both flirted with him for another hour or so)

when i had to leave chris drove me home, with sarah in the front seat and jeff and nick in the back with me. i got home and i get a call from jeff an hour later at midnight. he says "hey avery.. is it okay if nick and i come over?" and i asked him why.

ooh? his response??!
"saraj and chris are hooking up.. and i think shes seducing him, so we wanna leave the house for a little"

its been a week and a few days since then, and i havent seen sarah, but she has tried to talk to me but i've ignored her.
i've also found out that her and chris are about to go out.

should i dump her because she lied to me, and took advantage of me not being there? or be happy for her and chris.. because he and i were last summer.

She could tell you that and you talked to her and look what she has done

I don't mean to be cruel...but if she was your REAL friend,she would listen to the things you say

And she is just on a bad way..and friends always change and setup your way too..So she is no good for you

But you know,first ask it to your heart if ou still want her as a friend...and do what your heart tells you

Have a good day
Sincerely,
Laura

She went behind your back after you agreed on it.
She sounds like such bad news hun and you've done the right thing by ignoring her.
When she sees how much shes hurt you and what a cow she's been, she'll regret it for the rest of her life.
*Gem*

''When she sees how much shes hurt you and what a cow she's been, she'll regret it for the rest of her life.''

I hope that Gem...you know if she acted without any responsibility and without using her mind

Maybe she won't ever be aware of what mistake she has done too

I think she doesnt consider you nor your feelings. Maybe she was nice 3 years ago but i doubt it coz u said she pretends to be a goodie virgin when you know she's not. if she cant tell u that being your best friend, an also doesnt take anything that is important to you seriously, then that means she doesnt reeeally apreciates you and just wants anybody to hang with. If you want you can talk to her sincerely one last time and wait for her to change her ways but until then, get new friends and enjoy life.
Best of luck, Krazikoko

Well, i would totally be mad at this friend too. but don't you think it's a little immature to be ignoring her? just, if she tries to call or talk to you, tell her that your mad, and that [if this is how you feel] to please stop talking to you because you don't want to talk to her.

Dump her... do it right now...if u haven't done it yet...its important ok, have it done immediately

She isn't worthy of a obviously good friend like you. Ignoring her is not childish, it is getting yourself out of a situation that is unhealthy and stressful. Don't drag yourself down by remaining friends with her

.:Danielle:.

If she were a true friend and really cared about your feelings she wouldn't have done that to you. There is no need to have friends like that. If I were you I would dump her. If not it is very likely that she will hurt you again.
Sorry you had to deal with it though. She will get whats coming to her.
*Brittney

Friends like that aren't...friends. If you dump her you never know what he'll do from there, so your best bet is just dumping her. If you don't it is most likely you'll just get hurt again, just let him do what he wants, see what happens, and forget her.

Thanks guys (: i plan on ignoring her for a while and then telling her how i feel

then its bye bye slut (:

Yeah, Raveena, I see your point.

But be wary. I'm fifteen, too. I had a friend from preschool up, and, man. If she appologizes, great. Then try to be friends again if you can. If she doesn't.... Well. You know the answer.
But, just as a warning, if she makes you feel guilty or anything about it, she's not worth it. And, honestly, if she's that sneaky, then how can you trust her? Forgive, but don't forget this one. Cause you never know, it might happen again, and then who'd have betrayed you? Would it have been her, or would it have ultimately been you?

Weird. I'm Jane. My last boyfriend was Chris and my current boyfriend is Jeff. I'm also good friends with a Nick, and know a slutty girl named Sarah who WAS my friend and hooked up with Chris after we broke up and I still had feelings for him. I also live in California. This is too weird.

Anyway, this girl needs to learn a lesson or three. Dump her.