Does He???

What is it he says when he brings her up? And how are his emotions at the time? I think this could answer a lot of questions you have. Also, how long has it been since he was together with her?

He sounds very into you. If he still has "love feelings" left for this girl, then they will more than likely fade with time and they shouldn't be something to worry about. Enjoy him and the time you spend together. And next time he brings her up, change the subject to something happier for the both of you.

Sticky situation. I'm not sure I totally understand the friend bit though......so now he is saying that he liked her friend instead?

You have every right to worry if your guy is talking again to a gal he used to like. Don't feel wrong for feeling that.

Depending on how serious you guys are and how long you have been together, as well as if you can do this or not, maybe you should consider taking some time off. Maybe offer him the chance to figure things out for himself. He seems confused to say the least.

Again, I don't know specifics on your situation but every person deserves to be with someone who can devote their love to them rather than an ex or an ex's friend ;o)

No prob, Lauren. I think that if you offered him some time off, it would give him the chance to figure things out in his life. Also, people often don't see everything they have until its gone. Good luck!

i feel for you lauren i really do and he might have feelings for her still but you might be the only one he wants. i know its hard trust me i have been through it and i kno what its like and he talked bad about his ex and he said how he wont ever go bak to her and he says that he loves me but i dunno if he means it. i think he does but anyway