He asked me to date other guys

The one i love left for iraq and just to be safe we broke up so it wouldnt hurt that bad if he got killed but i think it hurts worse that we broke up idk wat to do and he told me to go out with other guys and stuff and i dont want to idk wat to do help

It sounds like he dont want you to put your life on hold incase he DOESNT come back... id respect his wishes even though you dont want to move on you cant wait and wait for something that might not happen x

I know but i just hate that he would ask me to do that its so hard im so confused idk wat id do if anything did happen to him i mean i told him id be willing to wait wat to do :(

Wow.
I would just tell him that you really love him and it hurts worse to know that your not his.
And tell him even if something does happen that either way your going to be hurt.

I'm goin' to have to go through the sending off to Iraq thing to. Trust me there is no worse feeling than thinking: 'What if I die? What will she do if I leave her alone?' Then you realise you can do her no greater harm than dying on her. Especially without a last good bye. Heck just thinking about it gets me a little teary eyed. Which is a big deal seeing as I haven't been able to cry since I seven.

He means the best for you. I'd bet anything that it tore him up inside to do that but he is trying for you.

If you don't want to then don't. utamatly it's up to your heart.if it only wants one person then so be it. let the peices fall where they may.

Thanx u guys have been a bg help anymore advice please i need it

^ A sign of true love eh. Just let him know that for the time he's gone that even though you could see other men that you won't.

I can't say i know how it is being sent off to iraq or somewhere like that, but his feelings for you will most likely stay though he doesnt want you to be attached if he died or something to make it hard on you. what he asked my be hard, but dont take it too hard. though, i don't. best of luck

Maybe he wants you to see other guys, because he plans on hooking up with prostitutes in Iraq along with his groupie soldiers. Or not. Maybe he cares for you a lot and wants you to move on with your life before anything potential actually happens. Or maybe he doesn't love you anymore, and this is the perfect excuse to break up with you. Or maybe he is giving you the option but secretly wants you to wait for him very badly, but his love for you won't allow himself to hold you back.

I think that it's a sign of how much he loves you that he wouldn't want to put you through that kind of pain ^_^ But if I was you and I truly loved him then I'd tell him that I'd wait for him anyway and I would =) If you truly love him then just keep letting him know that you still love him, that your waiting for him and keep supporting him and reassuring him because he's probably scared and feeling very alone ^_^
I guess you just have to follow what feels right to you and ask yourself if you can actually manage waiting for him without going to someone else when you get lonely because if you tell him you'll wait then cheat on him *which is what it would be if you told him you'd wait for him to come home* it would hurt him twice as bad =(
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