Hayfever or lying?

Hey ..well ive been with my partner for a 10 months and hes always suffered from hayfever...really bad...and he told me i wouldnt see him alot when summer came because it gets really bad and he sleeps alot during the day because it wears him down alot...i accepted it but now that it has come to summer...im seeing nothing of him...maybe 1-2 times a week for an hour so so am i being unreasonable because i accepted it but now its getting to me ? i just miss him but hes been like this since he was very little so i cant expect him to change now can i ?

U cant expect him to change especially if hes been like that since he was little but u guys could arange a time to hang out a couple times a week and stuff i have it it sucks it really takes alot out of you u just have to be patient and kinda wait it out

I'm sure it isn't that he doesn't want to hang out with you. Hayfever, well... it sucks. It takes most of your energy away. You just have to let him know that you would really like to see him more. I think you just need to be patient with him though because he can't help it. It's not his fault.

What r we doing here???????

Fcuk hayfever. Flippin puffs my eyes like madness :|.

Okay thanks =) xxx

I don't think he would lie about having hayfever. I don't even know what that is.
Can someone inform me??

Hayfever is the pollen from flowers, making you sneeze a LOT, it wears you out and takes your energy, can puff your eyes like erm, Esham said, (sorry if I got your name wrong AGAIN.) and just a lot of things that make you tired and feel stuffy/bad in Summer.

Oh okay. But do you get it everyday of the week?? And for long periods of time?
And I would just ask him whats going on.
Don't sound selfish, just concerned.
:))
And if he is lying he will feel guilty because you care.
That makes sense right???

Eew, hayfever. Allergies do suck bad. But hey, if it's really bad for him during the day, maybe you could plan some nighttime get-togethers? You could even stay inside, where there's AC, and hopefully it wouldn't be too bad for him. I don't think he'd lie about hayfever, especially if he told you about it ahead of time. He wasn't just like "oh... I... can't go out with you today honey. I... have hayfever! yeah, that's it!"

btw, can he get medicine for those allergies? Or does he just have to live with it?

He has tryed tablets and stuff but they dont have much of an effect on him ...but hes got to pick up some different tablets and eyedrops up from his doctor so hopefully that will make a difference ...x

What a surprise. You got it correct, Lucifer :).

If you want to see him more often, you could maybe make him lunch everyday, and bring it to him. he should really appriciate it and might bring you two closer together.

^ Agreed. He'd absolutely love it. Nothing says 'I love you' to a guy like a nice ham sandwich. :) Lol. Literally. It would show him you care about his well being. (Not the sandwich but that you came to see him and brought food at that!)

I never thought of that ..thank you ill try that later on today =) he'd probly say he wasnt hungry because he doesnt eat when hes first woken up...but what the hell...its the thought that counts ^__^

Good luck hun :)

I suffer from hayfever really bad you can take tablets ya no?

If he's ill then he's ill. I dont blame you for wanting to be with him because it must suck not being able to see him but i dont think he's lying. Hayfever sucks.