Giving Up

I need Help..I feel like guys dont want to date me? It as if im invisible to them..Im a very sweet young woman.. But I dont understand what im doing that make guys run all over me or just not give me a chance..

See the guy im supposed to be dating wont call or talk to me..

A guy I like Doesn't seem to like me..

So im at the point of just giving up...

PLEASE HELP ME!!!

Well I thought I was cursed or something. I understand it can be hard truckin' on hoping to find love (especially when everyone else seems to be successful there but you). You just need to be yourself and remain optimistic. And it might help if you were straightforward with the guy you like. A lot of guys are shy. Just remember there are about 3.4 billion guys in the world. You'll find you someone.

I think that if you go looking for someone you probably wont find him, most of the time you will meet the perfect guy at coincidence,, my mom always tells me there are plenty fish (boys) in the sea ^_^

you will find someone of that im sure.

My mom tells me that too...But it just seems like they only want one thing and I am tired of getting hurt I guess Giving Up would be the best thing for me..

Im nothing but myself when It comes to talking to people I may be shy at first but I warm up..I dont try to be something im not..

Thats good, you should never change for a guy and he should like just the way you are and if he doesn't he isn't worth you, remember that,

and you shouldn't give up, there are lots of nice boys out there and maybe it just takes a while before you actually find them..

Maybe, But I really dont want to get hurt again..
My heart has been through Hell and back and I just dont want to get hurt again..

I understand, I suggest that you take it easy, if you meet a nice boy, start with being friend, first get to know him and then later you could try to date him, in that way it could keep you from getting hurt..

i hope it makes some sense and i could be wrong because i don't know what happened to you.

I dont know what it is but If I date a guy older than me It seems to last If they are younger In goes down hill...

Then I would go for the older ones or the ones that are the same age as you

If you ever feel the need to talk to someone, you can always talk to me, if you want my email address just say so and I pm you.

Thats what im tring to do but my parents are putting so much pressure on me because i can get out of a relationship and back in one if a guy I like asks..But that really the only way I feel comfortable dealing with a broken heart is to just get back in there...I dont know maybe Im just boycrazy as my dad put it... But I feel like I need a male in my life cuz my dad is never around anymore.. so if i have a boyfriend I feel safe and secure..it as if i never really lost my dad..but in reality Hes not there..

Don't give up and don't let your parents pressure you, and idk if id call you boycrazy, just hurting and it's natural just to ''get back in there'' when you're hurting. you want to give it another try or try new, but it's not your fault every guy you meet isnt good for you. you'll find someone.

Thank you and I do believe that but I just hate How everyone treats me...

Ohh wow... I know how your feeling about having a guy in your life and feeling safe & secure. Oh yeah, I had that, my dad didn't get it at all he thought was I was too young for that and boys/guys are trouble.. lol. My mom just didn't want me to get hurt or anything like that. So I did what my heart felt like doing, and I was in the side boat like yourself.

NOTE: There will be some bad apples that you would feel for, but in the long run you will find someone like a soul mate in time. Believe me, you will.