OMJ...Im in a snafu

  • PygmyPuff
    17 years ago

    I have a problem. I've been single for a while, by personal choice. I gave guys up for lent, (lol) but then finally gave in to a guy I like a lot, and so now I'm dating him.

    But then I become discombobulated, when I talk to this girl and she tells me I'm bi. Shes joking of course, but suddenly I can't stop thinking about this girl in my chemistry class. She just broke up with her boyfriend and its like i subconsiously think I have a chance. But we're both straight. I cant get her out of my head. She just broke up with her bf after having sex for the first time and her mom thinks shes pregnant, and for some reason I feel I should be there and something.

    Declutter my mind, svp?

    [PygmyPuff]

  • Tricky Daze
    17 years ago

    Hmm..there are two way of considering this

    You think you're bi pyschological..I mean we sometimes take things so serious..Our minds do that

    It's like when you say someone he/she is ill so much,he/she will really start to think he/she is after a time..and will even be thinking he/she is having its symptopms(sp?)

    Or maybe you're just starting to discover the real you..maybe you just fooled your mind so far

    It's something that you need to find out

    Hope this helps,
    Take care

  • Helen
    17 years ago

    These feelings could just be you wanting to be caring for her, after all she has just gone through a bad time.

    also as you grow up you do get more of a sence of who you are, but be sure that what you feel if true or just your mind playing tricks.

    I know the last bits a bit confusing but i hope it helps =]

  • TrueLovesVictim
    17 years ago

    Um.. i kinda went through the same thing. not exactly that but i was friends with this girl and i started to think about her a lot and stuff and actually thought that i liked her. so i looked into it.. like on the internet trying to find some information why i was feeling the way i was. and it said on the internet that like 70% of girls go through a stage in life thinking about there sexuality. So its pretty much just questionable.

    but now 2 years later im still straight. it might just be a little stage. just don't deny your feelings though.