Summer Time...

So. he is gone for the whole summer, and before he left i told him that we shouldn't make our relationship official until september. because 2 months apart is a long time....and i think he gets the impression that this is just an excuse for me to fool around with other people, and thats not the case at all. its just it is hard with him gone and i didnt see the point in throwing myslef into it now, knowing how hard it would be when he left.

am i wrong?

No definately not..it's the same with me right now..a guy that i'm about to go out with is going away on a vacation, but thankfully for only three weeks. i don't think it's a good idea to get too into the relationship if you're gonna spend those months apart. i agree with you, i would rather wait for him to return.
i think you need to tell him it would be hard for you when he is gone, well for both of you actually. also insure him that you do want a relationship, just not as of yet. but it's important he knows it's not just an excuse..
good luck with that. =)

No you're not wrong. Just explain what you told us to him. Let him know that you're committed to him but would rather wait those extra to months so it'll make it easier on you.

^I Agree. Just let him know that long distance relationships don't always work, and you want it to work with you two, and let him know that it's better if you just get together when you are together and won't have to be apart for a long time and still have a commited relationship.