How are you supposed to cry silent tears??

Ok look i know this may sound wierd and please dont judge me but im in love . . .with a girl. i dont want to be but i cant help it. She got hurt by her best friend and i was there for her so we started getting closer but a little to close. we had a thing for like almost 2 months. but we couldnt tell no one. people at our skool would eat us alive and niether of us are known to be lke that. i Am kinida like at the top of the sckool chain everyone knows me. i dont really care but then i do. but i am going head over heels for this chick but i think she loves another girl. i cry every night and day. but no one is there to help me what should i do?? if i tell everyone how i am [bi] then she will get mad so idk im so confused. i really think i AM IN LOVE and it hurts like hell

Look. Love is love. It doesn't matter if it's with a boy or a girl or a... an... er.... panda bear. Well the last one is a little weird... But it's still love and that's all that matters. If they can't accept you for who you are then that's their problem. They are losing out on a friend. If you can't learn to tell people about your orientation then you are never going to feel comfortable. On the bright side, these days homosexuals are vastly more accepted and are becoming more and more accepted as time goes on. Besides, you're not the only one. About one in ten people are attracted to the same gender and other students who feel the same way will feel comfortable telling you about their orientation and that will help them come out themselves. Not only will you have helped people become more comfortable with themselves but you will also make some new friends as well.

If you have any trouble feel free to pm me. I'll help as best as I can.

Thanks i told one girl that is like my best friend and she told me the same thing. its just a little wierd still and she dont even love me any more so it dont even matter. but its hard crying every night over her and she dont really care no more all she cares about is that other chick i havent even talked to her in like a month. but i think i may just come out becuase stupid rumors are already started so might as well fess up to them. but thanxx wat u said really made a difference in my thoughts and my actions

No problem. I'm glad I could help. Remember true friends (like your friend you told) will stay by your side. As for getting over the girl you'll just have to try and meet someone new. Maybe by coming out you will.

Yeah i know she is always there for me no matter what. thats why i knew i could trust her with it. but i guess theres really nothing kstopping me from coming out. i need someway to get over her.

Just keep your mind occupied so you won't think about her. Know that it isn't your fault you guys broke up. Realise that there are other people who are capable of loving you back. Don't get caught up in how much you miss her. Life will go on you just need to let it. If you concentrate on how much you miss her you will only prolong your agony. Just meet someone new. They will heal your broken heart.

I knno but its just hard. Im trying my hardest but every little thing reminds me of all the time. its ok ,,ill be ok i guess. but owell i dont know if not talkin to her is a good thing or a bad thing. . . because it hurts me owell i cant think about it. . im going to the beach this weekend so maybe ill meet someone new

Yea, think positive. You won't be able to talk to her now. But once you are over her you can still be friends. You won't feel bad anymore around her again.

I hope you have fun at the beach!

Now I have to go. I have a huge test tomorrow in trigonometry and a big date. So good night! :)

Well thanxx for everything and goodluck tomorow on your test and on your date!!!!goodnight

Ok sorry i have nothing i can say because alex pretty much said everything lol so all ic an say is a agree with alex = ]