Gr. Ex's!

So my boyfriend, is away for 2 months. so we are taking a break since we werent serious to begin with, to make it easier over those 2 months. now his exgirlfriend told me the other day that she is still hung up on him and that because we are waiting until september to go out, can she have him for the next 2 months! i know, what a question to ask!

so i am the biggest facebook creep ever, and i was looking at his wall and i saw a post from her saying. " baby, i just got off the phone with you and i miss you already, can't wait to see you" i havent spoken to him yet, since it JUST happened. but i told her not to go for him, i was pretty sure that he had no interest in her anymore at all, and now i am just confused because he has clearly been talking to her behind my back, which is giving her the impression that theyll get back together.

i dont know what to do...i need to talk to him...but how?

Just be straight forward with him. That's going to be the easiest way. No need to sugar coat anything. I no it's hard not to but you have to tell him how you feel about the situation. If he really cares about you then he will listen to what you have to say.

My recent ex is now my friend with benefits
But look what the hell he said yesterday...
'If I'm not with anyone,you won't be too''..oh god..
And thank god that he doesn't know this site lol

Thanks guys.

the thing is is that we werent on a break. we just decided to hold off till september. we only started seeing each other a few weeks ago. i was pretty sure we had an understanding. now if it makes things differnt, he has been after me for a year and a half, and i finally realized that i want to be with him, the timing was just off, so i thought we both agreed to keeping it casual till he came back

Sometimes things just work out. and alot of the time, omg, guys are SO friggin oblivious! they dont even realize that the ex is chasing them! but like i said, sometimes things work out... my boyfriend is close friends with his ex girlfriend ashley, and after me and him broke up the first time, they dated shortly, [i wasnt really even talking to him so idk anything about it except it didnt work out] and then we started talking again and fell for eachother... again. well she in the past monthish has been all over him, i mean they live a half hour away but they would talk constantly on IM and myspace, often while he was at my house! she wuold always say 'luv ya', but then it escalated into 'love you' which, sad as it is, we all know theres a difference... anyways i tried to just ignore it and respect their friendship and my friend told steve[ my bf obviously lol] that i was a little jealous, and me and him talked about it a bit, but nothing rly changed. well one day while he was at the group home he lives in, they were on the phone and she started downtalking me, calling me a skank and such, when all i had EVER done was try to be super nice to her, and hold my tongue. he got mad at her and wouldnt speak to her and she wound up apologizing to him like crazy but he's still mad at her and he'ss till in love with me lol.
ok well after all that rambling, the moral of the story is that fate has a funny way of testing relationships and if it was meant to survive, it will.
good luck<3

Ex b/fs do me head in. they split up with ya to go with another girl however when your all happy and your with a great guy, they come back into you life trying to mess it all up. pfft guys lol

HEy dude honestly if he wasnt telling you he was talking to her at all and he was saying things like that to her then hes trying to hide something. If hes trying to hide something then cmon, theres something to hide! Hit him in the face and drop him...

or do the smart thing and just talk to him about it...although he probably would lie to you if he was trying to hide something just be so honest to him that he must be honest back. Good plan!!! yesss do it!

But if he has been after you for like a year and a half then i don't think that you have anything to worry about. ex's can come back and be friends. so stop worring about it and just focus on communication with him and making him want to tell you everything