Im Scared Of My Best Friend

  • ShadyPyro
    17 years ago

    Im REALLY In Love With This Girl Right Now..And Shes One Of My Best Friends..Im Not Sure If I Should Tell Her Or Not..Shes A Bit Boy Crazy And Has A Lot Of Friends That Really Like Messin Wit People...And Im NOT Tryin To Make MySelf Look A Fool.....Now I Cant Even Go Around Her Without Having A Mental Meltdown...What Would You Do

  • ShadyPyro
    17 years ago

    I Would Never Think To Tell A Girl Shes Hot....Its So Disrespectful....But Its The Approach Im Worried About...Its So Hard To Get Her Alone..Plus Im Afraid That If I Tell Her She Might Get A Little Freaked Out Cause Ive Known Her For So Long...And I Dont Do Well With Rejection..Im Already A Nervous Wreck..Its Happend To Much To Me....

  • ChaoticallyMe
    17 years ago

    This isn't related at all...and it's weird...

    Dixielandlove...you look like my ex...haha I thought you were her for a sec.

    Anyway...pardon me...have yourselves a good one :)

  • Jaime
    17 years ago

    I would just take her aside and tell her. If she says yes, then you have a potentially great relationship. If she says no, then you just have to take a little time to get over it.

    It's better than wondering "what if" for the rest of your life.

    (And about that 'beautiful' instead of 'hot' thing... I never understood why that's such a big deal. He's still complimenting you, just say thank you!)

  • Alex Marlatt
    17 years ago

    I agree with Mandy. Just ask her to lunch. Just ask her if she's hungry and go out to eat. While you're waiting on your food tell her how you feel and ask her out.

  • jenna grace
    17 years ago

    I think you two should just hangout one day. walk down the street somewhere...anywhere...
    and just have a serious conversation.
    tell her you have feelings for her. and tell her you dont expect anything back.. say that you wanted to let her know just because you know how good of friends you are.
    and if she is your bff.. you wont seem foolish.
    you will either get your happy ending. or she'll tell you that shes sorry but she doesnt have those feelings for you... you guys will still have friendship.

  • Alex Marlatt
    17 years ago

    ^ That's right. Your heart'll be crushed for a short while but you'll move on. But a missed chance will always haunt you.

  • Serendipity
    17 years ago

    Very true. think of all the people you will meet in the future, all the feelings you will feel later on in life. and even though it could suck now, it is only temporary, youre young, you will bounce straight back

    :)