Need advice!

  • Cynthia
    17 years ago

    I have this friend, which I like a lot and I think I'm falling for that guy! The thing is, he doesn't like me as much as I do. I don't know what I need to do to make him fall for me. Because he is always with me, we spend a lot of time together and last night, we had sex, but it wasn't the first time. Why does he want to have sex with me and spend time with me but he doesn't want to go out with me??? I don't get it. If he likes to be with me and he wants to have sex than what is the problem??? What is that thing I don't have??? I'm all confused. I want to be with him, but now, I think I should stop seeing him, because I'm getting hurted. If you have any advice please write me!!! I want to understand. Thank you!

  • unknown
    17 years ago

    What make you say "he doesn't like me as much as I do" ?? Is it only because "he doesn't want to go out with me"?
    All I know, because I'm a man, I refuse to go out with a girl because I have someone I love better than her. So I 'm afraid that someone I love see me with other girl. ^^
    But I hope he doesn't feel the same.
    Just ask him why he doesn't want to go out with yu.. ^^

  • Tricky Daze
    17 years ago

    Oh god..in my own opinion
    He is just using you..just kick his ass

  • Sweet lig
    17 years ago

    Wake up!!!! im sorry to say,, hes only wanted to make sex and as a matter of fact hes a user.. so it be better if try to forgot about him his not the right one for u!!

  • aUbReY mIcHeLlE
    17 years ago

    I Agree. If all he wants to be around you for is the sex, then he's not right. All men want is sex (ok not all but it's somewhat true) these days and if all he wants is that, then he's not worth it at all. Just move on.

  • Alex Marlatt
    17 years ago

    ^ Men have always wanted sex. It's a basic instinct. These days we're just more bombarded with sex via the media than ever before. Consequently vamping up our sexual urges.

    Anyways, just forget about him. I know it hurts but I really do not think that he is currently capable of feeling the same. Not to say he won't ever feel the same but the chances are slim and you shouldn't waste your time on him.

  • Sweet lig
    17 years ago

    I think not all men wanted only for a girl is SEX,, because there are still men this world has a respect to theri women but i believe mostly men wanted only for sex..

  • Krazikoko
    17 years ago

    I hav never ever insulted anyone in this site but GURL!! He doesnt love you because ur too easy. Only a kind of women would hav sex with no love. U hav no Idea what youve become by letting him hav sex with you without him loving you. Hes using you and ure letting him. I would say that what u need is to simply tell him what you think just to get it out coz he obviously doesnt like u like that and then kick him in the privates till he cries and then examine urself and analyze what u love about urself. coz ur not apreciating urself. Best of luck.

  • Serendipity
    17 years ago

    Think of it this way,
    what guy is going to choose a relationship over a booty call?

    no guy would get into the rollercoaster of a relationship when he can get the sex with no strings attatched!

  • silvershoes
    17 years ago

    I agree with most of the above posts, you even said it yourself but you're being incredible ignorant...HE IS USING YOU. He doesn't give a crap about you, he may not even find you attractive mentally OR physically, but what jerk wouldn't turn down free sex?

  • Dan Bloom
    17 years ago

    Not true serendipity... i would NEVER just try to get in someones pants but i understand the stereotype of guys... yes think of it this way... without being in a serious relationship he can pretty much do whatever he wants. Maybe even go behind your back a bit and be with other girl(s) at the same time possibly. I dont know him so i wouldnt be able to tell you but chances are this guy is a cheap excuse for a boyfriend anyways. Dont take him