I need help...!!!

Ok so me and my girlfriend have been together for a year and four months five months on the twelvth... Im not a perve but i want to give all of myself to her you know? she doesnt want to at all and i respect that but its kinda hard to have two different decisions... weve both talked about it and i love her to death so whatever she says goes but i just wish sometimes that i could give myself to her completely... is that wrong of me? Sometrimes i feel like just another guy with lusts and things and im ashamed but i really love her and i consider it something very special. Should i be ashamed at all? i just want to love her...

You are not a perv, but you can love her without having sex. I understand that you are ready and want to "give yourself to her," but if she is not at the same level of agreement, then you have to respect that and understand without applying any pressure.

Yep. There is nothing wrong with those desires. Everyone has them. The thing that makes you a bad guy who wants nothing but sex is just that: wanting NOTHING but sex. Sex is a beautiful thing if you let it be.

Love and respect. ur not a perv just yet...good for you.

Just yet? what do you mean lol

Love can live without sex. Its true. Respect, and not doing it until you both are ready is love.

If you love her you'll wait.

Well for me... everyone goes through a pervert phase.

Lol yea i know what you mean and ive heard that from others but im gonna try as hard as i can not to... but in my opinion i think she would be more of a pervert than me if we did end up doing anything... lol thats just how she is