For the people who have never loved

I have never had a boyfriend or anything...just stoopid crushes, I want to talk with someone in my place, *sob*

"It's quality not quantity that counts"

So what if you haven't had a serious relationship? Just wait till it comes to you. Trust me, it's better off that you're not in a relationship than it would be for you to be in a bad one(s). If you wish to share, you should give details as to why you're sad about it. What happened with those crushes?

I'll have to say I'm not in the same position as you but I'd still listen and share if you want me to :)

I am in the same exact position and I think I hav a pretty good idea of how you feel. i have never hav not even a peck...well my mom says that I did when I was like 3 years old but I dont remember squat so i dont think it counts. Most of the days u feel lonely and insecure like theres something wrong with you. But I on the other hand, feel most of the times inspired by being independent. its okay to not hav one. You can hav fun with friends, family or even urself. Just go out and play, get a hobbie, i hav tons. I hav so much time for myself that i can do many things. Just relax...theres nothing wrong. love you first and then luv the rest . ok? If you cant enjoy urself, how can u enjoy anyone else? think about it.

Vampyre, that basically sums up my love life as well.

Oh well, I guess we'll just have to wait eh?

<3333

&& remember, stay strong && never give up!

Plus i think that ppl that need someone to be happee are never reeally happy and tend to be suicidal when their love ones leave them or reeally reeeally sad for a long time. Be a truly individual. I bet love is wonderful but do u reeally wanna depend on that? Theres more to love than the other person. Love u and when the other one comes, he'll find u irresistible.Just be you, enjoy life so life can enjoy u.

To the poster: You're 12! Isn't that a little young to be having a boyfriend anyway? Hell, your still a kid. You have your whole life ahead of you. Don't worry about this stuff now. Go build sandcastles.

I dont get why someone would do that??See, thats why we hav age limits for relationships. young ppl dont reeally get love.

I dont intend to judge/label but you just said u had 2 boyfriends who u didnt love. a relationship is about love and caring and all of those gushies stuff. You dont start something with someone who you dont have feelings for. its not fair for the other one.
Ps: im not into labels myself.

Your still young! cheer up...

I don't have a boyfriend.
you don't hav to be sad or anything.
something will pop up eventually, and i mean i do like really like somebody, but i don't know if he likes me so wtf.
i live.

I met my boyfriend at prom. I had gone with my crush and he introduced me to his friend who I never thought I'd see again. I ended up talking to him maybe 3 times and eventually took a chance on him. Happy I did! People need to know that love comes to find them so try not to think about it and you will feel so much better [and meet somebody]

Sweetie` it doesn`t matter .
I've had like, what - seven boyfriends that I actually count ? (If you counted the others .. Let's not get into hat) But I only felt something for like two of them . In my opinion, it`s better to stay out of RELATiONSHiPS before you`re even in high school . Cuhs` those relationships will most likely fail . Like all of my friends that had long relationships starting in like eighth grade or whatever that lasted a couple years ended up breaking up anyways . Besides, it`s not like we need boyfriends or something .
As long as you know they`re crushes and don`t interpret them into something else, you`ll be ready when Mr. Right Now comes along (I don't believe in "the one" okay -.-)
Some people say that the boyfriend is a missing puzzle . I like to think of it as someone who compliments what's already complete .
So does it really matter ?
..__MiNDYY`

I never "officially" dated until i was 14. I didnt worry about love and I just wait for it to come to me, your young and your single. Enjoy both of those qualities while your still can. Your only 12 and you shouldnt be worrying about boys, worry about more important things like friends and family, and most of all school.

You've got so many guys you're headed towards, and so many years to find the right one.

Wow...Mindy sounds a lot like me...except I seem to care more about my relationships and exes =P

All of us going on about relationships...where's the hostess on the matter? I mean what else do you have to say about relationships?? What's your experience? Though I might change my mind once I have a son or daughter...I don't really think it's wrong for young people to experience relationships as long as it's fun, respectful, and safe.

Never settle for anybody. Even if you like them. Know who they are before you date them. Thats important.

Its easier to turn friends into relationships then turning relationships into friends.

But dating is important even in high school. You need to know the qualities you want for your husband/wife. Even though you probably wont marry your boyfriend in high school you most likely will want to marry the same type of person later on. Keep that in mind. Who you date is who you will like and who you like is who you will marry. Dont be stupid and marry the drug deal lowlifes who dont have jobs and fail in school... thats who you will marry and unfortunately if you date them then its possible you could like them

Are crushes really that stupid? You can still love someone without being their bf or gf... I know it sounds a bit towards someone cheating and what not, but it's something that can go either way. I've liked the same person for three years and never once have we gone out (which may be my fault), but I like her enough to call it love. But yeah, someday we'll all have smething if we wait for it.

Lol's I sound like you ? Huh . It says your twenty -- So I'll take that as a compliment :P

I don't care about relationships . Period . I gave them up last year . I didn't even THiNK about being open to them again until last week (: And I care about my exes ! Question is; Do they care about me ? Hm .

But anyways, I'm not against relationships or anything . But it doesn't really matter if you get into one or not , honestly . I mean, hell, I don't even plan on dating until I'm finished with college . So I'll be like ... 28 or something . And what skye16 say'd pretty much sums it all up .

..__MiNDYY

I know how you feel, i'm in the same situation too...well, nearly anyway...and I know it can be hard, and get you down a lot, i know it does me!

but we gotta think that maybe our chance just hasnt come yet, and that when its time, the perfect person will turn up for all of us...we've got to keep up our hope, or we'll never be able to love when the time does come.

I think you'd be younger than 28 when you're finished with college. Unless you repeat, take breaks, or take multiple courses. How old are you now? Yes, I am 20. I didn't mean you're mature like me =P I just said your way with relationships is similar to mine. I've had about the same number of relationships (that I count). Wow...that would mean you started young. I didn't start dating until I was 16.

I didn't mean mature . LOL's but whatever . I'm young . Younger than you . Not that it bothers me . You're younger than my most best friends .
No, I'll be 28 when I finish . Maybe older . The job I'm looking for will probably take many different courses. Law and medical I know are gonna be needed . HAHA I started young, yes. I'm "mature" compared to most people in my city. Trust me. I wanna toss about 99% of the girls here off a cliff. adjhsjkf anyways . (:

..__MiNDYY

*sigh* Believe me relationships aren't all they seem to be =P I didn't get my first kiss till I was 16, got my heart broken for the first time by the same guy because I wasn't good enough to date then started dating my first boyfriend and fell madly in love with him right before turning 17 lols Got dumped for the first time not long after that but it's the good times inbetween that count I guess =P

What I'm doing really bad at saying is that it comes when it's meant to ^_^ I haven't found anyone that I even really wanted to date since he left me because I'm still kinda in love with him so I know how lonely you feel but getting a guy just to have one doesn't make you feel better either =( Your only 12 give yourself some time and don't rush it ^_^ I'm afraid that if you can't be happy without a bf then you might not be with one =( Just take your time and enjoy life and being young =)
Rhea

Well your 12 so you still have time.You dont have to have boyfriends to make you feel worthwhile.Just wait till you meet someone awesome and then you will be happy because you waited for the perfect peron

Ok, ALEXIS HAROLD, you are a liar, because i was just in another post and it was called

you love your b/f or g/f why and you wrote something about IF I STILL HAVE MY BOYFRIEND, and you siad you LOVED him in that one sentence like 2 or 3 times, so why lie about loving someone

Sorry, when I say 'crush' I mean secret crush. For me and my friends thats what we mean. (oops)

I know I'm young but...actually in my school alot of girls have bf's already. Wierd-lol.

Also I feel really alone and wish I had someone who would be there for me and that I could tell things to, my friends and family are afraid to talk about personal feeling and stuff w/ me.

~So thats why.~

I agree with something someone above stated about not being dependent. Be complete before looking for an attachment; a compliment. I don't agree with finding someone to 'complete you.' You shouldn't be in the dating circuit if you're not already complete. Love yourself with your whole heart before loving someone else.

I agree with the above statement. Guys can't complete you... you complete you. They're just good to have around sometimes.

Be glad that you didn't have to deal with the heartbreaks that comes with each boyfriend. They just sometimes complicate things.

Are you seriously 12? If so... you have plenty of time.

"Its easier to turn friends into relationships then turning relationships into friends. "

I totally agree with that. so very true...

Well i have to say i am currently 16 and i haven't had a real "relationship" yet. but in my opinion that's totally fine..i have however been i love twice, though that love wasn't returned (so i'm not sure if that's really called being in love to some of you but to me it is :S). anyways i think you shouldn't worry..i know it's probably because some of your friends have bf's and you feel left behind (which i sometimes do too) but you are still so young. the time will come, believe me. in the mean time live YOUR life. there is nothing wrong with being alone. and i also totally agree with the post above ^ about being independant.

all th best!

I know I'm still young,

now I feel stupid

But better, ya know?