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Alright so me and domonic have been goin out for 2 months now and its great and i really feel like i am fallin for him but did something terrible and i dont know why! So i seen this guy Jesus at this baseball game, now i went to elementry school with this guy and we used to be little sweethearts you know! n he moved when we got to the 8th grade and i was crushed so when i seen him at the game we just started talkin and catchin up and he had to leave so i just gave him my number so we could just catch up..he knows i have a boyfrined...so he called we talked and he asked me if we could just hang out as friends one of these days and we did...n then he kissed me...n i pulled away, but then i just kissed him once more...just a peck...to see if there was anything there and there wasnt...alli was thinkin about was domonic! so i told Jesus that it was wrong what we had done and that it couldnt happen again and he said sorry and then i told Domonic about it and he was mad and i thought that he was gonna break up with me but he said that i was under his skin so he couldnt, but that its like we were starting over and he has no trust for me and i was fine with that as long as i could still just be with him and then i wanted to make it up to him so i baked him cupcakes till 3 in the morning and i made him a card wit a poem inside and i had a little surprise for him and everything for when he got over here but, he couldnt get over here cuz his mom needed the car! I am still really mad about it and my friend who grew up wit him thinks that he has other females on the side and my mom thinks he is making excuses not to come see me...but i dont think that he would do that...but he went to summerfest yesterday and he told me that he gave his number out a couple times for his business and that it was nuthing ! I just told him that my frined doesnt want me to get hurt again and he was like...obvioulsy i care about you because i would never stay wit a girl who kissed another guy but i stayed wit you, i obvioulsy aint tryna to hurt you when i call you all the time and talk to till 2 in the morning and come all the way to yo house whenever i can! n i told him that he could always be one of those guys who could try to get back at me by kissin another famale and he said..how would hurting you make me happy about myself...i wouldnt do that to you even though you did that to me!

Im sorry this is sooo long i just dont know what to do, do you think he would cheat on me or is he already cheatin?

He might be cheating, he might not. Who knows.

It just doesn't sound like there's a lot of trust in your relationship. You obviously don't trust him, and he can't trust you now.

No trust= bad relationship.

I think you should just move on. You obviously don't like him THAT much, if you're willing to risk the relationship by kissing another guy to see if there's any feelings there. I'm sure you'll be over it in no time.

"So i seen this guy Jesus at this baseball game,"

LOL. BAHA. LAA<AA<AOOOLMMALLOOO!.

Sorry. It's just I actually pictured Jesus at a baseball game.

Ok ok... so cheating is one thing and i think thats something hes not doing. If he wanted another girl he wouldnt have stayed with you... BUT you pulling away is one thing (getting into the situation is still on your side enough), but then going back for another?! WTHECK thats totally something a girl would do. I just wanted to see if something was there... whatever its just a caught in the moment thing. Youre lucky he stayed with you. He must really like you.

Anyways how do i know all this? cuz my girl did that to me about one year and 4 months ago. She was on vacation and played "seven minutes in heaven" as a joke cuz they were "just kidding" right... but she still kissed him and it killed me...

Btw... we got back together and are completely fine and she didnt do anything like that again... its been a year and four months but yea i know what hes going through... Just love him and hang in there and dont do anything like that again lol people only have two cheeks and thats why they get two chances.

He doesnt thrust you, you dont thrust him... he doesnt give you the time of day. U feel guilty and ashamed and u tell him that he can kiss another girl... does that sound like love to you?

You said so yourself that you agreed to have it where you guys were starting over..... patience... I've no doubt he's pissed off still, and that's probably all that's on his mine at the time and when he sees you he probably pictures you kissing that guy... personally if I was him.. heh.....

You said you were falling for him but sorry to say I kind of doubt it... if you were truely falling for him you wouldn't have kissed your friend... again... just to see if "something was there"... and what if there had been?... you would've broken up with your current boyfriend to date your old middleschool sweetheart?... Personally I think that's a little screwed up but.. *shrugs*... I'm perfectly happy with my girlfriend

He has no reason not to trust you if you told him what happened. if anything, he should trust you even more that you told him about what happened with jesus and that it meant absolutely nothing. if he doesnt trust you...idk. you got a lot to work on still.

Not true! youre overlooking the fact that she actually DID kiss that guy lol youre just looking at the fact that she felt sorry and told him

Seriously, does no one find that Jesus part hysterical?

Ok ok I actually thought the Jesus part was kind of funny too =p... I had the same image.. rofl

^^ Brit's right... guilty conscious (sp?)

^Thank you! :D

HIM PLAYING BASEBALL. in the uniform and everything. running around with his long brown locks. love it.

Maybe he has already cheated or is cheating, i mean if he is are you even willing to break up with him

I have a friend, who looks just like jesus. he even played him in a church play.

but anyways.
trust is an essential thing. how much did you two have before this? how much do you think the relationship is worth fighting for? if it is, fight. if not, its ok, but dont lie to yourself...