Oh No, Here We go again. Help?

Hm. remember how my exboyfriend and I had a hugenormous fight? well this time we were texting and he said "You treated me the best out of any girlfriend I had." and i didnt know what to say. THEN he said, "I guess I'm asking you back out."

CRAP!!! i dont know what to do! I dont know if i still like him or not, and sometimes he is so sweet and i love hanging out with him... but other times hes a real jerk.

Does anybody have any suggestions on how I should decide on going back out with him or not?

TAKL TO HIM!!! lol hurry too... you guys need to set rules and tell eachother what needs to change. If he was mad at you then for some reason something had to have been your fault. But you say hes a jerk sometimes too so you guys have things you dont like about eachother. Talk it out before you start anything... please.

If you're considering getting back with him...there is no doubt that you still like him. You just have to decide whether those good times are worth the moments when he's being a jerk.

If you care about him enough.. give it one more chance.. if it doesnt work that time, you know it's not meant to be

Give him a shot but take it slow. one step at a time.

If he's a jerk, I say forget about him.

I think what the problem is... is that i dont want to end up like my mom. she and her boyfriend have been constantly arguing, breaking up, and getting back together. i dont want a relationship like that.

I say talk to him tell him how you feel about everything including how you feel he can be a jerk see if you can work things out from there if you can then give him a chance but if an other fight happens that was his chance and he lost it.

There is something bothering me in this situation. He wants you back because you have treated him the best out of his girlfriends SO FAR, but does that mean you are what's best for him? Not at all. Also, since you are unsure and he wants you back simply because you're better in comparison to what he has experienced, it seems that both of you are more interested in being in a relationship than interested in one another. It's ok to be single, and in love, never settle for less than you want, because the relationship will end. Love is one of the few 'things' that must be fulfilled by wants and not just needs, or else you will be unhappy. On the other hand, it's not like giving him another chance while being unsure of your feelings will do YOU any harm, because if you decide against the relationship, you can just dump him...but doing such a thing could potentially hurt this guy badly, and I don't know about you, but my guilt would get the best of me in those circumstances.

I guess my advice is to think before acting.

If you even have to question it, then don't.
"You treated me the best out of any girlfriend I had." AHEM . There's an invisible SO FAR written thereeee ! In my opinion, I'd totally say screw him, but I'm negative . So think about it: Is it worth the risk to put yourself out there again with a guy that you know can be a complete jerk ?

..__MiNDYY

In some strange ways Jane and Mindy are alike... :O ...Though I don't think Mindy has that "I must rule over you"ness to her...more of an "I'll kick your ass if you're a jerk"ness...but then Jane has that too...interesting...

If hes more of a jerk most of the time dont be with him

but if you love him and he loves you and he treats you good, then go back out with him, just be careful