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Ok, so this is my first forum post...here goes

well, theres this guy i like, have liked for ages now. we've been friends for a while, and a couple of months ago he said he liked me too, and we got pretty close. he said he was gonna ask me out, but he changed his mind and said he just wanted to be friends.

now, this hurt me a lot, coz i felt so close to him and i felt like we'd work...i dont think he realises how much i liked him, but yeh. i think he may have a new gf now, not sure, but i still really like him and i really need a way to get over him and move on, if anyone has any suggestions to help me...would be appreciated, thanks.

Dude . You can't MAKE your'self get over him (or even TRY for that matter) . The harder you try, the more you're not gonna be able to get over him . If it was that easy, you didn't even like him in the first place . "i dont think he realises how much i liked him" Well obviously it doesn't even matter to him that you liked him . Sweetie, it doesn't matter HOW MUCH you like him . If he changed his mind, he changed his mind . Accept it and just let time brush away your feelings .
If it makes you more at ease, it's easier to get over someone you LiKE than someone you LOVE . So honestly, I don't think you need to bother thinking too much into this .
..__MiNDYY

Speaking of harshness...Mindy...
Enough said...
=P
He doesn't sound like he's worth your time at all. Sounds like he might have already started something with that girl while you two were still friends and brewing that potential relationship. He picked her over you in the end even though he was trying to get you too...guys are jerks sometimes..haha -_-

What? Numbing the pain isn't going to make it go away. Why sugar coat when you can get to the point ?

I wasn't hinting towards sugar-coating. In fact I was being pretty blunt =P All I said was that he's not worth her being sad about.

It's good to get to the point, but it doesn't always work better to go right to it...I can think of many examples of situations where the journey of getting there is almost just as important/enjoyable as the destination.

I was talking about your "Speaking of harshness" or whatever you said . Not your advice x)

Huh. You seem more like an optomistic person. I don't believe in happiness or "enjoying" things . But I can think of situations where I can see your point . I guess it really depends on the person, ey ?

You don't believe in happiness? That must blow.

I guess -shrugs-

Your just gonna get over him on your own,

its not like theres some secret way to get over guys

just put your mind on sumthing else

and if he does have a gf then you have to deal

and if he doesnt than see what feelings he does or doesnt have for you