His Voice or his way of being

  • Viridiana
    17 years ago

    Hey you all beautiful people! Care to give advice? I met this sweet guy in a chat room and his a good man. Don't worry he's not one of those disgusting guys out there. He gave me his number and i gave him mine. We txt at first and he sounded so sweet and i fell for his words. About two days ago he called me and for the first time i heard his voice. But when i heard his voice i was horrified. His voice sounded like a voice i hate so much and i thought i would never hear that voice ever again. His voice brings bad memories, but its different when he texts me. I never thought that i would ever meet a guy as sweet as he is. But the voice!! I don't know what to do! I'm so confused! What should I do? Advice Please!!!

  • BrokenREALiTy
    17 years ago

    Agreed with Britt . How do you know for sure ? I mean, come on, you met the guy in a freaking CHATROOM . And just 'cause the voice isn't what you wanted to be, if he wasn't (iF !) a disgusting dude, then what would it matter ? They can't change their freaking voice for you . But she said it all, so I'll shut up (:
    ..__MiNDYY

  • silvershoes
    17 years ago

    Telling her this guy may be a creep won't change anything, she already understands the potential consequences and denies their possible reality.

    So instead of telling you my piece of mind on online relationships...you can't change his voice. If you can't get over his voice with a simple deep breath, thinking to yourself, "it doesn't matter," then you're not going to be happy with him...A real relationship (if that's what you're looking for) can't be based on texting and talking online. As ^ said, he can't change his voice for you.

  • silvershoes
    17 years ago

    Wow, I said that terribly. I am so tired.