How to make the 1st move?

I have basically fallen head-over-heels over my neighbor. So it started when our families HATED each other but a few weeks ago, I saw him in a local pharmacy picking up some stuff for his family (as well as me) and I ignored him (because of the family thing) but he followed me to the back of the store and basically blurted out "DANIELLE!" I turned around and he was really close to me, so I stepped back but he did them same. He just started chatting and I kind of got the vibe that he liked me. I came home that night and all I could think about was him. Our families are OK now but still a little foggy but now I am in total love with him. He is outside (but ONLY SOMETIMES) and I want to start hanging out with him and getting closer but I just don't know how and it's not a situation where I can just walk over and say "Hey, lets take a walk!" I just don't know him that well yet.

You're in total love with someone you talked to like, what a couple times and you "just don't know him that well?" YOU'RE iNFATUATED , but it's always good to get the know the person either way . Just go up to him . Did you really need to ask ? Guys like confidence in a girl . Just go and ask him if he wants to hang out or go somewhere (just make sure you have something in mind before you ask, or else you'll spend like three hours trying to figure out what to do) .
Good luck (:

Oh & btw; your families have nothing to do with you two . His family isn't the one that's into you, and your family isn't the one that's into him . GOT iT ?
..__MiNDYY

Ok miss "MiNDYY" you really need to calm down. We used to be "play mates" when we were like 2 and I know him, but i've lost that relationship over the yrs. after our parents had a big fight, so yeah I am in love with him, get over yourself

Well sor-ry . If you'd mentioned that I wouldn't have said you were infatuated . And do not tell me to calm down ; I wasn't riled up in the first place . It's not like I was yelling at you ilke a pissed off beezy . If you had a relationship but lost it, it's not that hard to rekindle it .
Get over myself ? WTF . I'm just trying to help you so how about you not give me attitude ?

Attitude? I don't appreciate you calling me infatuated and our relationship doesn't have to be re-kinddled. If you would read more carefully I said "our parents ruined it" but we never did anything. CAN SOMEONE ELSE PLEASE ANSWER THIS!? I NEED SOMEONE HELPFUL!?

Well I don't appreciate you snapping at me . You didn't mention tha you knew each other since like, forever. Oh, and it makes you feel any better, if it's not infatuation, it's nothing more than like . You don't fall in love with someone you don't know enough . And either way, it's "ruined" isn't it ? God, if it doesn't need to be rekindled then what do you want ? You're asking, "How to make the 1st move?" Well if YOU want to make the first move, then you're going to have to talk to him first, won't you ?

I am sorry for snapping, I am just frustrated because I just don't know how to start things off?

Okay . Now is the time I need to calm down . Look, I just want to help . So, uh, oky you don't how to start things off ? Do you want to actually HANG OUT with him, or like, get to know him with simply conversation ? (I suggest hang out, but if your shy, simply talking one on one is better -.-'')

I should probably hangout 1st right? Yeah, so what next?

You'll have to hang out first to figure that out, sweetie . Once you get to know each other, you can feel if there are any sparks -- or if you feel you can really "connect" with this guy . Hang out more than once -- Have conversations with him ; online, over the phone, WHATEVER . And since he's a neighbor, it's a lot easier to see him & talk to him, eh ? But never rush into things, it normally ends up in ruins T_T

Oh, and don't send him a FRiEND FRiEND FRiEND vibe or he'll get the message that you wanna be best best best friends and nothing more . (Most guys are dense -.-)

You should get to know him before you start saying you are in love with him. Just ask him to hang out some time. He lives right next door! Go knocking one day and ask when he's free.

I do belive u that u r in love with him coz i know da feeling of loving someone who u dont know that well, anyway maybe u should ask him if he want to hang out or tlk 2 him ova da fence or call or txt him it is easier to tlk over phone but remember wit txt n online things can get mudddled up but yea..
from kida

LOL kida, everybody appreciates you know how to love people you don't know but that isn't really relevant. Talk, once you do, it'll be much easier. Or you can just wait for him, and make him desperately desperate, and he'll come running back in tears asking why you didn't talk to him first. Now that'd be SEXY.

Just talk to him, thats the only way,

First off, you are NOT in love. What you are feeling is infatuation, as best stated above me, and maybe even less than that. I think you are just extremely appreciative of the recognition and attention. Don't let his sweet words get to your head, leave them at your heart and let your head keep thinking.

To answer your question, talking to him would be your best bet :)

TALK TO HIM. i think that that is the only way this is going to go anywhere.It is hard to do but if he likes you like you think he does then it won't be hard at all. This is not love though just the usual someone liking someone and not sure if they like you. Happens to EVERYONE. GOOD LUCK!!=)