It went too fast and crashed n burned! how do i ressurect what w

Ok here's the deal, i really like this guy but we jumped into a relationship too fast we had nly started tlkin dat nite n we sat on the phone from 10 oclock to 7 the next mornin tlkin bout anythin n everythin n at da end he asked me out n i said yes, but da prob is i slept wit him da next day n i usually wait at least 6 months 2 sleep with sum1 n we broke up[ a lil while later we both agreed it went too fast n now we r good friends but he is tryin 2 get me 2 sleep wit him 'no strings attatched' but after getting 2 know him i think i am falling in love with him and i really dont want to sleep with him without establishing a romantic relationship but i dont know how to tell him.
please help and i know what happened the first time we went out was a mistake but its been ages since then and my feelings have only gotten stronger and stronger...

What in the world? Your 15 and sleeping with someone like that. Wow...

Wat do u mean by that? and thats not xactly advice u know

He means you're too young and immature and you should be able to sort this out for yourself. Grow up, and get some sense. He only wants sex, that's clear. Now it's your choice if you break it off or not, but the answer should've been obvious.

Well i dont think your age matters. But yea he is obviously after nothing but SEX, you could ask him about there being a relationship, but he might be to afraid to go into a relationship wit you becuase he doesnt want things to be like they were

He wants sex. how obviousl.
dont even bother with this moron...
and next time, DONT sleep with him the NEXT EFFING DAY after you met him!
goodness....

I agree with the comment above me..
no one has the right to force you to do something plus your 15yr and really you shouldnt be doing tht

dont do it because it wont wk and he seems to want to use you

You'll have to just get over him. He wants you for sex, and you want a relationsip. It will never work.

He only wants sex ! Are you completely blind ?! If he says "no strings attached" he obviously doesn't want a relationship, so why are you trying to get one ?

And btw; why would you SLEEP WiTH someone the very next day ?! Dude, that's just makes you easy in his eyes !

..__MiNDYY

It does make you seem a bit easy, but its not like you are like that with every guy( i hope) and yea just forget him, cuz he says no strings and u want those strings wrapped around ur fingers

What a loser, not you, but this guy who wants to use your body for his sexual fantasies without giving a crap about your feelings. Hell no, this guy is not worth your time. Don't even be friends with someone like that!

Well all i have to say that this guys doesn't just want your friendship. now he does just think that you are an easy sex toy. what a jerk

Hey, tnx 4 ur advice pplz n yea im prob gonna take it n tell him 2 fk off. tnx

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well maybe this is a repeat of above.
first of all just drop the guy completly, even as a friend. He used you and got in your pants (only after one day). The comment about waiting 6 months is wrong also...wait until your in love. I mean what would you do if you got pregnant or something this guy wouldn't help you support a child. Think of the big picture before having sex..be responsible.

Ha yeah I did that once.. RIP Red mustang GT Youll be forever missed

Seriously though, You don't ressurect it. Move on, you made a mistake and the relationship is no longer tangible because youve lost his respect by sleeping with him so easily and will use you for physical pleasure and will never match your emotional need. They're are plenty of other fish in the sea.

It's hard to believe that a 15 year old has already had multiple sex parteners. Wow. Anyway though, now that you have realized that a couple of days is moving to fast, your hurt and want a relationship. I believe you shouldn't have allowed that to happen in the first place. Sex isn't just something casual. You shouldn't have sex until you are really in love with someone. It's something special. Nothing to mess around with.

Honestly, it's a foolish mistake that could have been avoided. He doesn't want to be in a committed relationship so ehy bother. You need to be smarter with sex. Maybe you shouldn't be thinking about sex right now.

Some friend huh to want have sex with you with no strings attached. Too late sweetie, he already has strings attached to your heart and he knows it. He's pulling on them right now.

*sigh* I totally agree with the post above me =P Been there, done that but I stopped before I went all the way thank god ^_^

I totally agree with the part that he knows he's got you emotionly attached so he's pulling those strings =p One of my guy friends did the same thing to me and I ended up exactly where you are except for the sex part as I said but I didn't realize that he didn't want to date me he only wanted a plaything =p But he now views you as easy and believe me, it's not worth even staying friends with this jerk *which is what I stupidly am doing with the guy I went through this with*

Take him completely out of your life as much as possiable, don't think of him as much as you can and look around you and see whats there ^_^ I think you'll be surprised lols
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