I need some advice please..

  • Viola
    17 years ago

    What do you do when the guy's parents are really strict and don't wanna him to have a girlfriend?
    his dad found chat logs of us and gave him a lecture about not having a gf. He made it very clear. he's dad is very strict..i don't know what to do?..i don't wanna loose him but i always don't think we should sneak around, cause if he's dad found out that we'd be so done. it would end really bad.
    please help me..have you ever been in this situation?.. i don't want to loose him. _</3

  • ***searching for the one
    17 years ago

    Maybe just start off as friends and eventually his dad will get to know you and if he likes you maybe hell let his son date. if not then maybe it wont work out...yet. his dad cant expect him to stay single forever rite? good luck!

  • BrokenREALiTy
    17 years ago

    Yeah, sneaking around normally isn't very wise -.-'' And even if you did, I don't think his dad would ever reconsider it .. So for now, just stay friends . You both like each other, right ? You don't have to go out in order to share your feelings with him, and you don't have to go out in order to keep him . If he likes you, and you guys just keep talking and hanging out like you do now -- You won't lose him as long as those feelings are still there . You just gotta' wait it out till his dad hopefully reconsiders .

    I wish you guys the best ;]
    (It sounds like I'm talking to someone who's getting married ... xD)

    ..__MiNDYY

  • Stephanie Naylor
    17 years ago

    Well we know that you dont wanna lose him, then dont, just keep every thing on the down low and try not to be obvious about it, ok,

  • Viola
    17 years ago

    Well he says he wants him to concentrate on his studies for now and his work (cause he works with his dad)..he says he can date after graduation high school, which would be in two years since we both just finished grade 10.

  • Viola
    17 years ago

    His dad is way too unreasonable..it won't work..no point in trying. he won't reconsider at all.
    he stopped his daughter from having a bf when he found out she had one, like immediately. we don't wanna get into a relationship and then have it broken up..it'll hurt too much.
    so the decision is we're gonna wait..wait untill this is better and we can be together.
    he says he wants to focus on other things for now like his education (he's taking summer school for math). i don't blame him..it's the right thing to do
    the bright side is we both like each other a lot. so i don't see how we're gonna loose that..we can wait and just be freinds..i know i can wait for him forever.
    but thanks everyone for the advice. =)