Do i break up with him?

Don't bother to comment this is all fixed
but how do i delete my topic post
or whatever its called?

K so he never calls me unless I tell him to in a message b/c he didn't answer his phone
he likes me thats a yes but he doesn't show it well
he told me "I love u" on night after a week of "us" and I said it back -but I don't think he ment it and I know I didn't
so I don't say it any more - he would if i did- I know he would because he always waits for me to say bye before he does

its hard b/c its summer and I never see him but I decided to not call him unless he calls me and so far its been like 2 weeks of no talking so
do i call him and act like everythings normal
do I tell him its over
do I tell him I wanna see him (i do )
do i wait til next time I see him to decide what I want to do ( this i'm planning on doing)
do I tri to make him jealous to see how he responds?

ps go down the page and read what else i wrote b4 u write any thing

Tell him you want to see him.

You're never going to figure out if this relationship could go anywhere if you both won't call each other until the other one calls first!

This is silly- just call him and see how things go.

Well, I can't relaly tell you whether to break up with him or not . But you NEVER, EVERRRR try and make a guy jealous . That ends in ruins .
I do suggest that you wait till you see him , but I think it would be better if you call him or have him call you, whatever, and talk to him about this . You have to tell the guy how you feel about everything . Communication is key in a relationship . Then after you talk, depending on how he responds, and how you guys end up working out -- See from there whether you want to break up or not .

..__MiNDYY

Thank you for the advice I'll tri to call him right now but what do i tell him b/c I cant see him for at least a week (I'm busy and out of town) I will tell him I wanna see him though
he also thinks he calls me alot according to my friend (who I had ask him for me)

Well then he's retarded -.- (No offense or anything) . Just tell him exactly how he's making you feel . Don't say straight out anything about breaking up ... Most guys'll just end up asking "Do you want to break up" and ... Yeah that's basically how it ends T_T Just let him know how you feel . I can't tell you what to say, because I don't know how you feel .
I hope it goes well for you though .
..__MiNDYY

Yes talking to him is the best idea. agreed. maybe seeing him is good too. so you can tell him in person how you really feel. he needs to know love is a two way thing..and that he needs to put time into your relationship if he wants it to work..and if he's not willing to put that time in maybe he's just not ready for a relationship. though i do think he is.. he just probbaly doesn't realize how you feel, and just doesn't know that you want him to pay more attention to you. talk to him =) all the best.

Oh yes i should tell u i'm 14 so i think it can't be real at so young but I'm confused b/c i want my 1st relationship to work for at least a while and I don't know if I see us as a good marrige couple or not thats what holds me back and not knowing if ill regret any of what i may do
and i want to know him better but hes hard to talk to and i don't no if we could be friends after since we don't talk
what happens if we kiss soon cause i don't want to got that far yet (its been a full month as of today) but at the moment b4 we would kiss I'd tottaly want to but I don't know if I want to give that to him

Tell him you want to see him, get together and talk to him face-to-face. Just ask him what's up.

You're young and I'm guessing he is too...First of all you never should of told him you loved him if you didn't mean it, that was a bad decision. You guys just need to learn how to talk to each other and also you should try to hang out, at least some anyway.

Mindy...you didn't try it...but I got jealous when you said those guys like to hug you =P

With that much lacking of communication, it's only going to get more tiring. I think you need to see someone else. Hey...if you're not compatible...you're not. Move on.

HAHA You didn't message me back btw, Joey o-o Due to you, I'm bored to the point of insanity .

(Sorry to add onto this post xD)

Omg as of today I fould out:
he has a girl friend named cassy I guess and he and I "broke up"
according to my friend who I asked about her comment to him on myspace that said: who broke up with who?
so I called my friend who sent that comment and said were u talking about me and him?
yes she said
I said "ah I didn't know we were broken up we haven't talked for a while cause I called him on his cell and house and he never answers me or caklls back"
she said she doesn't know how long they been together but not more than 2 weeks

what do I do?he doesn't answer his phone and i don't know what to do ( I'm glad were "over" though) I don't know if he knows I know about her and if he knows I thought we were still together til now

Just forget about it/him. i mean you said it yourself that your glad you guys are over, so enjoy it, cause obviously that's how he sees it.

Thank you all sooooooo much

but should I ever call him and say i wanna hang out as friends sum time
(even though he never has a girlfriend and we never really broke up
and i don't like him like that)?
and should i ever mention us and say i think its better like that?(i don't think i should but i'm really not sure)

No tell him it's over because he ain't trying to make things work and he ain't worth it. I've been in the same place and it's best that you break it off with him

"I said "ah I didn't know we were broken up"

Wow. That's sad.

Well, don't call him or hang out with him if you don't want to. sounds to me like you're still hung up on him but don't want to admit it. i may be wrong, but it's just coming across that way to me.