Is it right? or am I in the wrong, somehow?

I had my first real b/f this year, it lasted about a month and a half but I pulled out because he had been in previous relationships and I knew he was more into commiting, when I know that I'm not... When I broke it off I still had strong feelings for him, and even now I think I still have feelings(it's confusing for me) ... Anyway, a few days back my BEST friend told me that she liked my ex, I was like okay and kinda dismissed it because I knew that it was going to happen sooner or later. Yesterday I found out that they had sex together, my heart stopped, my stomach dropped and my head thumped. It made me feel like I've been betrayed, I don't know why, but I'm angry, like EXTREMELY mad, everytime I hear his name I want to hurt something or myself, I can't look my "best-friend" in the eye, and I keep having this feeling of worthlessness, because even though he had said that he loved(I dont actually believe in that word) me, he had shown her more affection and passion in one night than at all towards me when we where going out.... I'm all very confused, and angry. I just wish that they hadn't... Is it right for me to feel like this or should I just suck it up and bury these feelings deep inside??? ... Please help my confused head!?

I just don't like this feeling of anger and frustration, I think of ways that I can act out on it but I don't like fighting so my heart keeps telling me to yell at someone but my head keeps sayin 'don't cause conflict!' .... :(

So you went out with some one and that means your friend cant sleep with him thats crazy you chose to dump him so i dont see youir arguement at all

That is unexceptable. Anyone you date is off limits to your friends even after you break up, for whatever reason you break up. It's just not right, but purhaps you still should have told your friend (and I use that term loosely) that you still had feelings for him.

It's just I expected moral-restraint from my BEST friend, is it morally acceptable for them to do wat they've done? I would have thaught not, but maybe I'm just old fashioned... I just wish I could control my flaring anger!

Well you could lite them all on fire......But I know what its like to have this happen. In the end I push them both away and made enemies out of them.....I just hope it doesn't happen like this for you....

Mm thats why i havent said anything, cos she is the sort of person who makes an enemy out of people if they have conflict with her whether she knows it or not, and he would self-destruct if i got mad at him... I dunno I spose I'll just keep my feelings inside and hope it stops hurting soon... thanks

No don't do that....sooner or later they will find out how you feel. Better now so the anger doesn't fester into something else.

"Friends don't sleep with their best friends exes"

^ Isn't there a country song about that or something? (Little help from the Americans here please)...? :)

Oh ha ha.....and maybe there is...wouldn't know. Not a fan of that music, and I agree. FREINDS wouldn't do that. Does anyone one of them know you know?

No. I can't even tell my other friends, because they all have loose tongues... I dunno... maybe I'll get over it in time, I just want them to be punished, but I don't... My feelings are really mixed and confusing...

Ok bff exes ttly off limits!!!!!!!!!!! every teenage girl knows that!

Lol thats what i thought, but it's history now, no one cares so yeah, i spose i wont anymore, lifes to short to dwell on these things... atleast i think!?! I still havent talked to him at all... and he made my "best" friend cry the other night, so im sure that they both 'used' eachother. I dunno, i just hope karma gets to 'em, let the great unknown sort em out lol i just wish i haden't hurt myself over it :S oh well, what can u do ? er...