STOP CRYING

Stop seeking for attention,
stop satying that your depressed.
or you had one bad day out of your life.
please
how does one bad day make you depressed?
it doesnt
so shut up suck it up because
some people have it worse than you

SOME PEOPLE
learn to hold it in or do something about their depression like see a shrink.
if your that damn depressed, go do soemthing about it
and stop crying over the computer
nobody can *physically* sit ther and hold your hand
give me a break
this is fuking
unbelieveable

Never said i have the right to complain did i? and please learn how to spell.

*tch tch tch* Ladies please, this isn't the fight fourm. Its the sadness fourm....and if you don't want people to open up to you the just don't come....its that simple.

Firstly, stop cussing. You're not allowed to do that. STOP breaking rules, alright?

Secondly, stop MAKING rules. This forum says "Sadness and Depression" People can come here if they need a shoulder to cry on. I get your point- not to wallow in self pity - but what do you know about the lives of the people you encounter here? Maybe they're making it a big deal, but MAYBE THEY AREN'T. This place is for them to come and seek support. Who are you to deny it to them? If you don't like this forum, don't visit. Simple enough (I hope).

MAYBE YOU GUYS DONT KNOW WHAT I HAVE BEEN THROUGH, AND JUST ASSUME MY LIFE IS PEACHY. I HAVE BEEN THROUGH, THE WORST HELL AND NO I AM NOT BLOWING IT UP TO MAKE IT SEEM BIGGER THAN IT IS... WANT TO KNOW PERSONALLY SEND ME A MESSAGE.
BUT I DONT GO AROUND ALL THE TIME AND SAY "FEEL BAD FOR ME... OH FEEL SO BAD..." YOU HAVE TO PICK YOU HEAD UP AND LOOK FOR THE POSTIVE SHIT.
ANYONE GOT A PROBLEM WITH POSTIVE TALK TO ME ABOUT IT.

I agree with you to some level, but not everyone feels the same as you . Not everyone can just stick it to themselves and keep their head up high, so they need to come here and vent/talk . If you don't like it, you've obviously expressed your opinion so why not just stop chewing off people's heads who don't agree with you ? Telling them to stop crying isn't going to make them STOP CRYiNG, so why not tone it down a notch ?
And if you don't like it, why are you still here ?

Oh, and btw, just because you've been through crap that you feel is HELL, doesn't mean that other people haven't been through worse . Even the simplest pain to us, could affect someone larger . It's great that you can handle it, but people come here because they simply CAN'T .

..__MiNDYY

I must say I agree with the origional poster, Shana I believe it is. People should probably be seeking advice from their friends and/or family. However on the other hand not all problems can be solved by them or can be told to them. But you need a better outlet than a bunch of people on the internet. They could never fully understand the situation, they cannot feel your feelings or see the expressions on peoples face (which is imperative in certain situations such as telling if someone is lying). The point of talking to your friends is to get a (sorta) unbiased take on things. But we only know what you know and you tell us what YOU think and that's all we can base our reply on. Not very helpful and doesn't make for the best advice.

And I agree 100% on the whiny part. People, grow up, half of you a like thirteen and are saying things like "He/she brok my hart, ill never luv agan! I wanna dye so im gonna just go slit my rists now." (Note how I wrote that in the way simulates said thirteen year old's atrocious spelling.) I have had a hard life kiddos and I don't complain about it. I suck it up and I go try to fix it. And guess what? It actually works, I'm happier than ever and I'm pretty successful in school now. Yea it turns out that if you take the blame when the blame is due and take on responsibility for your actions it gets you a whole hell of a lot farther in life.

Alex, sometimes it is easier to tell strangers. And it is easier to say things over the internet. I personally cannot talk about my problems with anyone in person because I get all choked up and can't get a word out.

Life is only what WE make it.
HOWEVER. In order to see the light we must have dark.
This Post is for those experiencing th dark.
If you've had a rough time then talk about it.
If you can or have dealt with it, great! However the fact that life goes on will hit others at different times.
Untill then, I think this post should remain for those seeking help only. Help, be helped or seek other forums.

Lol angelina..well your always going to get those whiny 13 year olds. and as annoying as it is there isn't a whole lot we can do about it. most of them know no better and have the false belief that what they have been or are going through is worse then anyone else and will simply never get better. Just let them whine someday someone in there life will give the a good kick up the backside and then they'll know what life is really like

Lets keep this civil

I don't agree with the poster because if there were no good voices to help u and lend you a hand, you'll never ever live .. so this place is a great place to share your problem and get a help, so u can keep it going ..

Alright, pple please, ya to the original poster u have a point about wallowing in self-pity but c'mon, nobody assumes that ur life is 'peachy' and this is a "SADNESS AND DEPRESSION" forum so get over it if u dont like it dont come cuz ur always gonna halfta deal with those who wallow in self-pity in these places

And by the way not every1 in this world has access to a shrink and other such proffessional help, thats WHY forums like these are created...to help pple who cant get it proffessionally or who nned advice

LISTEN HERE WHORE. I AM NOT FAT.
AND BITTER.
You are sterotypin a person for having a personal opinion...

i can post whatever i want..
MY OPINION SO BACK OFF.
p.s.
i have friends.
and i am not fat...
like yourself.

Sleep Mods, but don't snore so loudly... you're awakening the house, and you know you don't want that :P

Kidding...

WHANNA WHANNN.
you guys (minus the people who were agreeing with me)
sound like some very very immature kids.
who need to do a lot of soul searching and growing up.
the world doesn't revolve around you.
life goes on.
and there is light at the end of the tunnel.
P.S
THERE ARE FREE SHRINKS/THERAPIST. AND I AM SURE YOU GUYS HAVE SCHOOL COUNSULORS.
so don't tell me you dont have acess to them because you do.
if you choose to wallow in self pity be my guest but dont yell at me for having an opinion.

Ok. I actually feel better after reading advice online.

SO WHY THE **** SHOULD I NOT ASK FOR HELP HERE....?????!!!!

You are really starting to piss me off.

Before you waste kilobytes on this site, remember to answer the question and I posed, and not write a lame insult. Mmkay?

Free speech concept has a hole in it...because the minute you tell someone that they can say anything they want, the reason you're saying it is cause the person SAID something which you dont agree with. so in essentiality you're saying that you shouldnt be saying such things, and also claiming free speech. not aimed at emily, just at the concept of using it in debate

Um sweety, This forum is meant for people with depression issues to get advice. So... one, stop complaining, because it looks like you have an issue also. second, stop cussing, like they said, not allowed and unecessary, and third you have no right to get angry at people who've only experienced one thing or one bad day. Because one bad day, can change someones life forever. Someone could have the best life, be so hapy, and such, then one day get rapped. That will change someones life forever. I know, it's happend to one of my friends, even though they caught the guy, doesn't mean a thing, till this day she's still affraid to go out alone. So don't go saying that one day can't change someone. And sucking it up is the worse thing you could do, and some people can't afford shrinks. So next time you go thinking that everyone in here over reacts (as you implied), try reading some of their stories, before just going and making accuzations that you have no right to make. Have a nice day. =)

-Lizzi101-

If you go into a movie theater and yell fire, yeah, you'll get into trouble, because people trust other people some times, especially when it deals with their own lives. People can be gullable. Most of us are. You yell fire, people will panic and run. Hence bringing up the subject of how people want to live forever. No one wants to die. Especially if it's a slow burning death.