Gettin over a broken heart. S.O.S. HELP!!!!!

My ex broke my heart so badly not too long ago, and I was doing fine since I hadn't seen him in a couple of months. But he's reared his head again and I realize that it still hurts to see him, especially since he doesn't seem to show any signs of pain.

I try to put up a brave face and act like I'm okay like I always do but... I know I'm not over him yet. How can I quickly get over him if he keeps putting speed bumps in the road I'm on?

Grab a tub of ice cream, a bag of oreo's and a spoon. Grab an old movie. A favourite blanket/stuffed animal/thing. Crawl up watch the movie eat the ice cream and cookies. And have a good cry.
Write a few poem's and just
Get it all out, And then start a new.
You need to just realize that you don't deserve what he's putting you through... You deserve better.

[This is what I do. It seems to help me I hope it helps you]

I hope the pain goes away and the happiness returns.

Good Luck,
Elaine

If you still have feelings for him then it is going to be hard with him around to get over him. I would just try hanging out with your friends and being around other guys. make your self realize that you deserve better than what he put you through. I also agree with previous post... just crying and getting your thoughts out helps a lot. And is also a great inspiration for poems.
good luck.

Thnx. But it's just hard to avoid him since we go to the same church and have some of the same friends. But I get it... I'm definitely gonna keep myself busy with other activities and thoughts, and surrounded by other people! :):):)

I believe I can bounce back from this.

There are other fish in the sea... ones that will treat you the way you should be treated. i know from my own experiences.. that guys tend to show NO feelings what so ever after they break up with you.. and i think it is all a lie.. they just don't want their friends see that they may still care, so they have to act all "hard/cool"...
and its going to take time... you can't just wake up a few days later and be like.. oh im over him.. like you said... just keep yourself busy with other things.. that dont involve him.

I completely agree. Guys do try to act all hard in front of their friends. He does all the time.

Who needs boys when you got ur girls? Spend time with your friends they always cheer you up