I need help :(
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StrongLilAngel
17 years agoI went out with this guy michael for 2 years...we promised to stay together forever. he was my first love...but all of a sudden he decides he doesnt want a girlfriend and rips my heart apart. i dont kno what to do...i'm trying so hard but i cant let go of him...i cant eat, sleep or cocentrate on anything. All i do is cry and cut myself...i keep thinking its my fault that i lost him...maybe if i treated him better or showed him how much i loved him more..i never wanted to lose him...i always do everything wrong, i cant do anything rite..i just wish i wasnt alive anymore!!!
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bRiNgMeToLiFe
17 years agoI know how it feels. Your so in love with one person and when it ends your completely unprepared and stuff. I'm still getting over my first love. But you do have to just keep busy. Go out,try to have fun,and as much as you can try to stay away from cutting. In the end it hurts more than helps. If you ever want someone to talk to I'm Here,just pm me.
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Lyndsy
17 years agoI can't give you any advice, but I can say that many people have been in your situation! I have. I was with a guy for a year and a half. And previous to that he was my best friend for a year and a half. So all together we spent 3 years constantly around each other. One day without any reason he broke up with me and said he didnt love me anymore. I was heartbroken. I didnt eat much and I just cried a lot. I ended up dating some guys here and there, but always ending up missing him. It took me maybe 2 years to really truly get over him. And i only really got over him, because I met the man I was to marry. Of course, I didn't know it at that time but he changed my life and my world and made me forget about my past.
Basically what I am saying is, it may take a long time to get over him. And it may be hard! All i can say is to hang in there....try to be strong.
I know, easier said than done.
