Any advice?

Well my bf of nine months and I broke up.
I don't exactly know who broke up with who and I have no idea why.
He says he still loves me and still wants to be with me, but for some reason he thinks this is what I need.
Last night he wanted to stay on the phone after it all happened. (We broke up Saturday night)
And he kept telling me he loved me.
And please don't criticise me. I know I am young but don't say "your only 13 you don't need to worry about guys"
Too bad I care about him.
But does anyone have any advice of how to get him back?

Don't worry, I won't patronize you.

First maybe you should examine why he believes you need this, and see if he's the one who really needs it. Take your time and go slowly. I hope everything works out.

Well if he's staying on the phone with you and hes saying that he loves you and wants to be with you, and you feel the same way, maybe you should get back together. Try to talk to him about why you broke up in the first place.

I don't think he loves you, I think he's just being the usual 13 year old male. Maybe he cares about you, maybe he even does love you, but do whatever you wanna do.
I know I know, you don't wanna hear this, but you seriously don't have to worry about these sort of things. If you wanna have another 'relationship' with him, go ahead, do it. Just don't take it so seriously. Plus, if you're not sure why you broke up, then why are you questioning why you should get back together?
And if you broke up so easily for no reason, do you really have the foundations a relationship needs?

Well I said in my original post, don't worry about my age.
Age is nothing but a number.
And if I think I love him then thats what I think.
I asked for advice not some jerk to crticise me because of my age. And he isnt 13. Thank you very much!

Lmao. Thank you. But I think that is what I'm going to do.
Just give him his space for a few days, or atleast try to anyways.
But the only problem with that is I'm scared to give him space because then he might just decide "oh I don't want to be with her anymore"
*sighss*

Exactly thats all I wan is for him to be happy.
But i will just give him his space and some time to think about it.
And then we will see what happens.
But until then.........what am I supposed to do?
I didn't think about that goshhh

Shopping sounds good hehe.
Do you have a problem with shopping?
lol j/p
But all I have is sad thoughts goshh I am trying really hard to not think about it but I go to call someone and I start to dial his number.
Everything reminds me of him, but I guess your right.
I just don't want to give up. And just walk away so easily.

Well he is 14.
And the other day I thought that something was wrong because he had been acting different.
Well turns out I overreacted and we got into this huge thing about it.
I sent him a text saying i can't do this anymore, meaning I can't fight.
but he took it the wrong way and thought I was breaking up with him.
Then later that night we talked and I asked him what he wanted to do, and he said stay together.
So I thought we were together, but I guess we werent and now all of the sudden he doesn't want to be with me.
Which is really confusing and everytime I try and ask him about it he either is like I got to go or he trys to change the subject. Weve been together nine months and for him to just up and do this is really weird.

Well he said that he needs space.
And he is confusing me because one minute he's telling me he loves me.
And then next one hes saying we can't be together.

So I asked him flat out, do you want to be with my or not..
And he said that he did. I said what's stopping you?
And he wouldn't answer me =[

Yeah, i just don't know.
Thank you for all your help.
Its almost as if I am refusing to just give up and let go.
Which is really strange but.......

Lol.
But that doesn't mean you can't fix it =]

Okay then, he sounds like a typical male.
And the rest of my advice still goes.

Talk to him and make him get specific about his reaons... if he thinks it's better for you, then ask him WHY, and refute what he says... if he can't give you a reason, then what he's telling you isn't true and he's breaking up for something else =s

I agree with BANGBANG's advice. Maybe you dont wanna hear it but you did ask these people for their opinions and advice so dont get mad at the people who say what you dont wanna hear. You are just 13, i mean you still have your teen years ahead of you, not to mention your entire life as any adult. And i am sorry but unless the guy is 18+ he probly doesnt know what love is yet. Your just 13, dont worry about love. It will happen later in life.

HAH Thanks Impulse but I tried that and it doesn't work and you darn well know it ^_^

If nether of you know why you broke up in the first place then sit down, talk about it face to face and figure out what you both want =) Maybe he's just not sure that you feel the same or maybe he's having doubts himself you'll never know till you talk to him face to face =p Hope everything works out for you two =)
Rhea

Blah, let him go. Better will come. You won't listen to me now, but in due time, sooner than later, you'll think to yourself..."Man, I should have listened." Good luck to ya.