WAITING FOR HIM.

  • Melinda
    17 years ago

    What do u do when a guy u like (and likes you back) asks for time to think ( you know to get his head on straight).

    i like this guy and he asked me to wait for him to get his head on staright. we call eachother everyday. i have no idea what he could be confused about.

    i mean he just broke up with his grilfriend who he hardly talked to.

    i am so confused. is it me?

  • Normal is the Watchword
    17 years ago

    Easy he just broke up with someone. Maybe he doesn't want to rush into things and cause himself more heartache or assuming you would be a mistake. Duh! Give him time or move on. You decide.

  • ABake
    17 years ago

    Yeah, thats what I would do.
    Just let him calm down and get everything done with her, and plus you don't want him coming into a relationship with you when he still has feelings for her =]

  • Vic
    17 years ago

    Of course he'd need time... he just broke up.. and he probably doesn't want you to be the rebound, you know.. to fill that gap in his heart just like that... because that'd be wrong.. be thankful he's not rushing.. because if he was, you'd probably end up more hurt.

  • Viola
    17 years ago

    Yeah a lot of guys are like that..they ask you to wait. it's kinda of hard cause if he likes you you don't undertsand what you're waititng for. but still i think you need to give him his time..and maybe some space too. it's better that way. you need to know he's fully ready to be in that relationship with you. if he needs time after his break up i see that as a good thing. cause if he rushes things can go bad further into your relationship with him. if you really like him you should be able to wait...i know it's hard, but hopefully you can find it in you to wait untill he's completely ready. all the best =]

  • Of Sweet Insanity
    17 years ago

    I think he's trying to fingure out where he is at and what he might do wrong. He may need time but you said that he barely talked to his ex. I think that he is either scared to be with you or he's confused about where to go from where he's at.

  • Emma
    17 years ago

    Hes bacially saying.... hey ...do you mind putting your life on pause for me while i think?
    whos life is it that your running?
    i mean in the end. your all youve got right?

  • OMGdanielle
    17 years ago

    Wait. i mean when my ex and i broke up [again], i almost got back with my other ex, but i told him i wasnt ready for a new relationship which is good i told him tha because me and my boyfriend are getting back together [again].
    i couldnt have been a good girlfriend with that guy if i was still thinking of another.