Hurt the one we love-on purpose?

  • Love Panda
    17 years ago

    Do you think its true we hurt the one we love weather it is intentional or subconciously??

    october xx

  • Anonymous Angel
    17 years ago

    I think its a bit true because I love my mother dearly but sometimes (well a lot of times) I'm really mean to her and my sister and i don't mean it, I try to not do it but it just happens so I don't think i do intentional.

  • Becca
    17 years ago

    Yeah, I think that (or at least for me anyway) we don't intentionally hurt the people we love but sometimes without thinking we hurt them when we're angry with them.

    You know like when you get so upset with them you just want to hurt them and you know just how how to. It's not good though because you regret it later.

  • Becca
    17 years ago

    Yeah, I think that (or at least for me anyway) we don't intentionally hurt the people we love but sometimes without thinking we hurt them when we're angry with them.

    You know like when you get so upset with them you just want to hurt them and you know just how how to. It's not good though because you regret it later.

  • Brittney
    17 years ago

    Like the previous post. I don't believe that we hurt the ones we love intentionally. When you are angry you say and do things that you don't mean. They are also your easiest target because you know them so well... you know their week spots. Though, when I am angry I just try to stay away from people and go for a walk or go write so that I don't take that angry out on the ones I love and it actually helps.

  • shes a killer
    17 years ago

    You say certain things to the ones you love because you trust them, and you know that they will be there for you...but never intentional

  • Love Panda
    17 years ago

    I know i have my moments of being angry at people. but i also think i do both, subconciously i hurt my bf over little things i say and do that affect him more than me and i dont normally realise until i see his face and his cold shoulder. but i know i hurt my sister intentionally, especially when she gets on my nerves or winds me up-(which she does alot)!

    love and peace
    october xx

  • Alex Marlatt
    17 years ago

    Nah. I couldn't hurt anyone I loved on purpose. Not friends. Not my angel. Not my puppy. Not er... well that's about it... but if there were others!! Oh you can bet your sweet hiney I couldn't hurt them. Lol.
    Not intentionally or sub-consiously.