Recognised signs of losing the one you love

  • Love Panda
    17 years ago

    Any one know any? im not sure, i think starting to have distance between one another is and lack of communication.

    october xx

  • The Tears I bleed
    17 years ago

    Yeah those are the two main points, and you just dont feel connected any more, like everything you had is gone. like the spark has died or is dying

  • Beauty In The Breaking
    17 years ago

    Yeah, those are the main things to look for =p If you no longer can't wait to see him like you did early in your relationship, If you don't feel like you can tell him EVERYTHING like you used to...stuff like that I guess =p
    Rhea

  • Becca
    17 years ago

    Definitely. When things just doesn't feel the same anymore, he starts to change (or you do).

  • StonedGooberz
    17 years ago

    When u dont want to hold hands no more....im like 17 so i guess that just me being young

  • Beauty In The Breaking
    17 years ago

    Lols I'm 17 also so don't worry lols But yes, when you don't want him to touch you anymore or you don't feel anything when he DOES touch you it normally means your in some trouble as I say lols
    Rhea

  • Impulse
    17 years ago

    You're losing the one you love.. there are two different types

    First: When YOU'RE losing interest... you don't smile when you're in his presense like you normally do and you don't take certain times to go out of your way to speak or be with him... (if you're busy you're busy but if you're not then you can find a way)... when you talk to other guys when you COULD be talking to your boyfriend...

    Second: When you're losing HIM: He doesn't sound as lively as he normally does.. he's not communicating as much as he used to... almost the exact same as the signs of YOU losing interest actually.

  • Alex Marlatt
    17 years ago

    Main sign: "Honey. I love(d) you. But it's over. Gimme back my tee-shirt bio***!"

    Lol. Just kidding.

    If he starts acting distant or distracted then something is on his mind. Doesn't mean he's thinking of ending it but it's a possibility. He might also start getting pissed off or annoyed easily. A sign he's trying to get a reaction from you and thus be able to pin the failed relationship on you by saying it was you who got hostile first.

  • Beauty In The Breaking
    17 years ago

    Your completely right Alex ^_^ That one happened *or felt like it to me* with my last relationship and it really hurts =( I've only had to deal with my boyfriend losing interest in my though since with the first guy I loved he didn't date me lols I really could've used you around a few months ago though Alex lols

    As for what was said about you talking to other guys *if your a girl* when you could be talking to your boyfriend...I personally prefer to talk to other guys at times even when my boyfriends around just because constant contact where you don't hang out or talk to other members of the opposite sex tends to tax the relationship for me lols I'm a people person and free spirited and most of my friends are guys, any guy that wants to date me has to understand that and there will be times when I won't choose to spend time with him because my guy friends and I have plans *but normally I'd invite him along though* ^_^
    Rhea

  • TheWorldFellNUWerentThere
    17 years ago

    Agrees with Alex.

  • Liz
    17 years ago

    I agree with Impulse Lance, except dont get to worried if he is distant. Yes its a sign something is wrong, but it might have nothing to do with your relationship. Life has hardships and sometimes we just dont like to deal with them. Ask him whats wrong, remind him that he can tell you anything and everything. But brace yourself for what is bothering him, because there is always a chance the relationship has something to do with it.