Him or the way he treats me?

  • loving the sound of his name
    17 years ago

    There is this guy and he is really sweet but i dont really like him.. just as a really close friend.. but he says he loves me.. and he says it so much and he treats me like im the only girl for him and says he loves me and would never let anything happen to me...i love the way he makes me feel the way he treats me and how he tells me he loves me.. i really makes me feel good inside ya know.. but i dont really wanna go out with him.. im not in love with the guy just the way he treats me...its wierd.. but he keeps tellin me he wants to be with me and i dont know what to say to him.. i cant just tell him i dont wanna go out with you cause i dont like you and him not want to talk to me anymore... its like im taking advantage of him cause i dont want him to get hurt but i wanna be able to hear him say i love you still to me.. i dont know what to do.. am i horrible for doing this to him/// what should i do? HELP!!!

  • The Tears I bleed
    17 years ago

    I think you should tell the guy how you feel... theres nothing wrong with loving how he makes you feel but not loving him. theres no spark there but it is nice to hear how special you are from people that love and cherish you. but you should defintly tell the guy, explain it to him and tell him that you dont wanna lose his friendship

  • Jaime
    17 years ago

    Poor guy.

    You're being a little selfish. Either go out with him and give him a chance, or don't go out with him and stop leading him on. You can still be friends, if you choose, but you're really going to end up hurting him.

  • kida
    17 years ago

    If u give him a chance u moite develop feelings for him or you might not and he'll get hurt more search ur heart and remember some of the best relationships come from friendships.