The hardest of them all

Alright i had this HUGE long thing here but i edited because it was too long and a bit of a sap story of my life...not intresting...i will just get to the point!, I recently ended a relationship with someone i deeply cared about....i would say love but now i question that so it wasnt love it i am questioning it now...anyways it's been quite rough and would love to hear some thing to help get over him.....I already answered my question but i would like to hear some more suggestions

I've never broken up with a guy i l9oved that much but i am going thru the pain of loving a guy who deoesn't love me and it hurts too. This is some advice i received from a friend:

Make it a NO HIM world. Just until you can learn to get over him, pretend he doesn't exist. Get rid of pictures, letters, cards, whatever [not neccessarily destroy, perhaps just somewhere where you won't look at them]. Make sure your mum knows your not going to accept his phone calls, maybe even ask that she doesn't mention him. EVery time you find yourself thinking about him, write a letter to a mate or read a really interesting book to take your mind off things.

My friend did this when she couldn't get over a guy, and she said that it worked, and soon she was able to get over him and be all cool & calm & collected around him.

Sry i couldn't be more of a help,

good luck, xox, PorteR

Take Care

Thank you, I think i found the complete answer to this whole post...lol I know i answered my own question. I am going to start taking kick boxing classes to get my mind off of the whole thing as well as just get everything that stresses me out.
I realize now that i am only 17 years old, Like i have my WHOLE life ahead of me, and i came to the conclusion it isn't worth crying over him anymore.....I came up with this in like an hour. I have talked to him and i told him to just let me be and i am moving on and i am doing this for me....because in the end i am doing this for me...thanks for your advice i appreciate it
scooby

I'm so happy for you! I'm glad you were able to come to that conclusion on your own, it means you're smart lol =P No, but seriously, i'm happy for you.

Enjoy kickboxing ;)

xox, PorteR