I cheated on my bf and now I regret it what should I do

  • lil bit
    19 years ago

    I am so lost the person who made my life complete I lost because I let a boy sweet talk me into somthin I did not want to do in the first place.I want my baby back and I dont know what to do.

  • SHYSTY23KO
    19 years ago

    :( I cheated too and i felt the same way and actually didn't tell him for a long while and when i did, it was horrible at the time ad it was on the phone but he took it way better than i thought! He might have cried a little but then he told me he pecked a girl on the lips and that turned the tables, my thing was bigger ut i got madder. But you should try talking to him and tell him what happened and how you feel and maybe you could make it up to him? I know begging isn't good but i unno, do what ya gotta do and get ya man! Maybe write him a note or get him something sweet!

  • Megha
    19 years ago

    my bf cheated on me and i was mad!!
    but if he wudve been really sorry 4 wat he had done and apologised truly i wudve given him another chance....but hes just shameless...oh well..
    anyway i think if ure really sorry and u talk to him and clear things,accept ure mistake and promise to edify it..and if u luv him and he luvs u enuf, he will give u another chance...so start working things out...write him a poem explaining everything and how much ure sory and how much u luv him...im sure things will work out....best of luck!! :-)

  • Razorblade Lies
    19 years ago

    i cheated on my boyfrinend when he went to jail the first time. I cried every night. I knew that if I didn't tell him about it he would either never find out and hiding it from him would slowly kill me. Or he would find out from someone else and hate me forever. I decided that it was the best thing to do if i told him. well i did and he stoped tralking to me for a while but he started talking to me a few hours later. he just needed time to think. he forgave me, but he told me he would never forget it. we are still together and i havent cheated on him and won't. the best thing to do is tell him you love him and you made a mistake. your truley sorry. good luck with everything. i hope i helped

    *starlight*

  • lilhippyangel
    19 years ago

    I cheat on my ex and i told him the night after. At first all he could ask was why and i told him it was cuz he was never around and he said he understode that and we still stayed together. He was more mad at the guy I did it with then me, which was weird!

  • Razorblade Lies
    19 years ago

    guys are just weird like that. my boyfriend was mad at the guy too.

  • Ariana Moreno Covarrubias
    19 years ago

    I cheated on one of my boyfriend once and he forgave me but he never forgot it he would hold it against me. we eventually broke-up but we remain good friends. let your heart heal then see what you can save of the realationship you once had even if it means just beening friends

  • kami
    19 years ago

    im goign through that same exact thing....and how did it turn out for you im soooo scared he is going to break up with me he knows.,i told him but we couldnt talk for long...they only give you a half hour to talk on the phone in jail and i told him aorund the end

  • helena
    19 years ago

    i cheated on my bf and i truly beleive he is me soul mate, i was so scared of loosing him because he means everything to me in the end it hurt me more than him, i wrote him a massive long letter explaining that i was drunk and how much he means to me and all the good times weve had together, i basically said that i really couldnt bare to loose him but if that would make him happy then i will stay out of his life forever no matter how much it hurt me, he said he couldnt be without me and it took a while to gain his trust back but now were stronger than ever and neither of would ever do anything like that again...a happy ending i suppose but i love him so much. i would suggest coming clean though as my boyfriend heard it from someone else which didnt help the situation, i hope things work out for you honey, take care yeak! luv H xxx

  • kami
    19 years ago

    goodnews....he forgave me and were still together....he wants to kill the kid but i talked him out of it...i think it will make our reltionship stronger though thank you for helping !!! im glad you had a happy ending too

  • kami
    19 years ago

    how would it ruin my relationship....i already told him and we are great

  • Eibutsina
    19 years ago

    Move on and let him find someone who can treat him with the love and respect he deserves - if cared as much as you claim to you would have never done it...