Dont know what to do...

Well lets just say that im in a delimma between a friend and a guy. Well there was this new guy in school. And I met him and he seems very nice and sweet. And my friend she was going out with a guy, but she broke up with him in one period and wanted to get with the new guy the next period. But the things is I was sorta the messenger for my friend. At first he didn't go for her for a few days but he eventually gave her a chance. But the thing is I started liking him a lot and we've gotten to know each other very well. So he talks to me a lot about himself and I talk to him a lot bout myself. Some people think that me and him are together more than him and his girlfriend. I really do like him, but the only problem is that he's with my friend. And my friend has helped me through a lot of things. So now I have no idea what to do...But I do know one thing now is that if a friend needs your help to get with a guy, you shouldn't do it. Your friend should do it herself...

I think you should just tell her how you feel. If she is your true friend then she will understand. Or at least she will try. She won't ditch you or be a complete B!tch about it. Though, a lot of people that you think are your friends... you find out aren't. Not really anyways. So I would talk to her about it. Maybe even talk to him first. See what he thinks/feels.

Yeah, talk to her about it. Didn't you like him first? After you talk to her, I'm unsure of how you'll be able to date him without it effecting her (even if her feelings for him weren't as strong) but it's better to get it off your chest.

I DONT THINK YOU SHOULD TALK ABOUT TO HER BECAUSE SHE DOESNT KNOW YOU LIKED HIM FIRST AND SHE MIGHT NOT TAKE IT SO WELL SHE WONT TRUST YOU TALKIN TO HIM ANYMORE SINCE YOU GUYS ARE ALWAYS HANGIN OUT AND STUFF AND THEN THATS GONNA CREATE A PROBLEM BETWEEN YOU AND HIM CUZZ IF YOU DONT TALK TO HIM MAYBE HE WILL GET MAD AND IF YOU DO THEN YO FRIEND WONT LIKE IT SO I DUNNO WAT TO TELL YOU I HAVE THE FEELIN I HAVENT REALLY HELPED U OUT BUT SORRY

^ Er... why are you typing in all capital letters eh?
Oh well.

I think you should talk to her about it and let her know that you really like him. I'm sure she'll not mind.

I don't think you should say anything. Just get over him. He's with your friend, no matter who set them up, and you can't be with him. What good can come from you telling her about it.

There's other opportunities out there.. you just have to realize that he's not the only one out there... you can go through the same steps with any other guy and find probably the same feelings for them.. don't get stuck with that one since he's with your friend.. you know it's not right to [serpent] him away from her..

Yea thankz for all of your opinions and advice...now i know what i should really do...well ive found out that they have broken up, so i told her and she's okay with it... But i've decided to forget about the guy...i think we're better off as friends... We still hang out from time to time...I've realized that its better that we stay friends, I wouldn't want to ruin our friendship... And there are other guys out there...so I'm not dissappointed... But thank you again for you opinion... I've really gave it some thought... :)