I don't know What happened...why did she do this to me???

I need plenty of advice... lots and lots of it!!! I was hanging-out with my friend one night... Well my friend wanted to go visit her girlfriend where she works at... All the employees were sitting outside at a pic nic table when love at first sight happened to me... This girl and I started having conversation blocking all of our friends out of it... I left after there break with my friend... I told my friend that her girlfriend has got to find out if that girl who I was talking too likes chicks or not... Well, that chick ended up hanging out with my friends and I that night... My friends would talk to us, and we wouldn't hear them because she and I were so locked onto conversation with each other... I had found out this girl had her two little boys taken away from her, but she is working two jobs and getting her life together to try to get her sons back... She found out that I don't have any children of my own, but I did get custody of my sixteen year old nephew recently... We hung-out on most of our spare time for the first three weeks and even admited that we were both indeed attracted to each other... We found a lot of common interest, and we really clicked well... I fell for this girl easily and quickly... We have never kissed or did you know what, but we have held hands, given eye contact and expressed our feelings... After those three wonderful weeks, nothing changes except her mind!! She decided she didn't want to try to have more or anything with me, and this broke my heart .... She mentioned that she is still in love with her ex-boyfriend and she is scared if her family found out about she and I that she wouldn't ever get her kids back... This hurt me so bad...I just thought to myself that she should have thought this over three weeks ago... Our friendship remained, but my feelings were down because I wanted her... We got into an arguement about how I should raise my nephew.... She really had me upset... I brought my feelings back up to her, and she said if I did that again, then she wouldn't be my friend nomore... So right now we are not on talking terms... urrrr... I did get to see her , but we didn't say nothing to each other... I do have several poems I wrote to her... I am just wanting to know if you think maybe one day she and I will get this all worked out and be something together....

If she said you wouldn't be friends nomore if u bring ur feels back up i don't think shes worth it

i mean if she doesn't care about how you feel
she obviously doesn't care about you the same way
but tri 2 b friends still call(email) (or how ever u contact each other) her and say ur sorry about what happened and tell her u wanna hang out as friends some time
tri to find out what u do and don't like about her that can help you alot ( espacially don't)

I guess all I can say is you tried and that you didn't do anything wrong. I don't think she's worth it if you can't bring your feelings back. Just let her know (like they ^^^ said) that you want to hang out as freinds! Tell her you see that the past isn't gunna get you two anywhere and that you want to be friends. If she won't do that then tell her bye... It'll be really really hard but s gotta do what s gotta do! I'm here for you.